"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is this an invite for more

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Theres a receptionist girl who i see every friday because she holds the pay checks. So i make small talk and smile a lot. So today she remembers my full name and she says, you know next week will be the last week ill be able to give you ur checks.

Im super curious, i ask why all surprised thinking that they will only be mailed out or something weird.

She says, oh cuz they hired a full time receptionist, my office is actually back there.
She points to the spot.

So i said, no biggie just keep my check at your desk and ill walk over to you.

Smiled and eye contact for days.

Im actually feeling presumptous right now about insinuating that she wants to see me pick up my check at her desk.

But also, is that her woman speak for saying that, next week will ne the last time i see her there and to get the number. ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hudpes

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Why small talk, just ask her out!! Anything that isn't a shove away is an invite.
 

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Thanks dude....i was just super tired from work...i should have asked her out that day
 

El Payaso

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Just slide her your number on a piece of paper while taking your pay check. Do it with a cheeky wink and a quick smile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thats pimp bro....thanks.

Coming from a clown ass dude lol
 

om1xr

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You know what you should do and everyone knows but 95+ % of guys out there will hesitate and lose many opportunities to do a lot of cool and great things and meet some awesome people (not just girls) because of fragile ego or some insecurities, lack of balls! you name it

over-analyzing and mind masturbating is not going to do you any good. instead go for it and you will see the result!
 
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