"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok...so I work part time at this place that is having a party. Sexy girl who i say hi to and tease once in a blue moon asked me if I was going. I never speak to her for more than a minute...just banter....I resonded with, are u going with ur boyfriend? She said, nope, don't have a bf.....ok I said...are u dressing up for it. She said yea I bought this black lacey dress thing....then I said, I might crash the party just to see u outside work clothes. Maybe its an open and shut case but that's the latest as of now so....what the delio?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The only way to find out is to go to the party.

My advise: You go to work to make money, not to hook up with women. It's bad for business.
 
Greasy Pig

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Women ask these bullsht questions all the time. I've lost count of the number of times I've been asked this by work chicks and they truly were just being friendly or speaking so they didn't actually have to do their fvcking job.
But play it cool and keep busting on her.
You never know what can happen when booze is involved.
 
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