"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this an exception or the rule?

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There's this UG woman, probably in her 30s or 40s...that I met on a message board and became good friends with. The first warning sign I should have noticed is that she always whined about another guy on the site who she claims she was dating (he said he told her flat out that he was uninterested due to lack of physical attraction)...and she told me how she'd cry over him and everything. (Keep in mind I was whining to her about my problems too.)

Anyway, so we became really close, eventually I was having a bad few days...was put on ritalin as a stimulant...and I said something like after 9/11 people were so nice to each other then when enough time passed they went back to being jerks to each other. She freaked out, told me never to contact her again, which I didn't.

So from then on on the board (when she usually agreed with me) she started some crusade against me and making me out to be some woman-hating anti-christ...and eventually got kicked off the board by taking the bait from her in an argument.

Two months later, I was allowed back on the forum, and I made a post about how certain women you can tell look snobby and up to no good and not relationship material...using Pam Anderson as an example. She freaked out, told me I was objectifying women, and tried to get every woman on the site against me.

I got a message from the moderator who had originally banned me telling me this is a final warning and that if I say one more word, I'm banned for good.

The thing is, the owner of the forum was the one who allowed me back on...this moderator is completely clueless. She likely messaged him to try to get me banned again.

My question is, are all women this crazy when the sh*t hits the fan? She was my biggest fan, and told me how she loved my posts when we were friends, now she's some feminazi b*tch that's doing everything she can to try to get me kicked off.

Even other people (men and women) on the site took note of her crusade and her behavior.

It makes me relectant to get to know any woman. She was very nice...and once she decided she didn't want to be my friend...she turned into a total nutjob.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The moderator finally started to believe me after hearing the same things from other people and she was told to stay away from me unless I personally attack her (an actual attack directed at her)...and that he was made aware of a potential conflict of interest.

I can't post the site for privacy reasons...but all I said was that you can tell by the way some women's facial expressions and the way they carry themselves that they are snobby or conceited whereas other women look nice and more approachable while still being equally beautiful. She claimed that I was objectifying women. She also had a problem with the 10 scale, like I'm the one who invented it.
 

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that I met on a message board
I found your problem. Women don't use forums, forums are for men, and even then it's still a little bit nerdy haha. If a woman is on a forum just get her to strip for you or something.

Hilariously I actually got a girl from THIS forum to show me private videos of her masturbating on YouTube.
 
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