"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this an example of good game?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LorenzoVonM

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I don't think its good game in order to land a woman but its good example of not giving a flying fvck which makes for great game. He owns who he is like a badge of honor and is comfortable with it. I like how the author of the article says he embarrassed himself. I can bet that he felt no such embarrassment. Internal validation is where its at.
 

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Personally, I think that's an example of horribly weak game, if you could even call this game.

After all the purpose of the behavior collectively known as "game" has an outcome in mind, to further the seduction.

I suspect this guy just took a chance to "say something" knowing that nothing was going to come of it.

And as LorenzoVonM mentioned, if this is who he is, (which I kind of doubt) then it's more an example of somebody just saying what they want without really worrying about consequences.

The reason I doubt this is who he is is that people tend to behave differently when they are being viewed publicly, as this guy knew he was.

Listening to the tone of his voice and how he kind of trailed off in the middle of his question leads me to suspect he was just taking advantage of his only opportunity to talk to somebody young, attractive (maybe) and rich.
 
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