"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this an effective shoulder routine?

DJ Girevik

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http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/jason9.htm

The whole pre-exhaustion pump thing seems kind of odd and more for temporary size than actual muscle build to me, although pre-exhaustion is good for mental toughness. Does getting the blood loaded into your muscles and then doing the heavy sets with them actually build size better than not using pre-exhaustion? And what about strength-wise?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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seriously though, we can't help you, a dumbbell curl can work for me but not for you and so on
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I don't think that'll work, overloading your muscle(s) with blood only temporary and then having to work again
 
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I'm quite ignorant when it comes to weight training techniques and terminology. But I do exercise quite a bit with free weights on my own, as well as doing push-ups and sit-ups and running.

I probably do everything wrong, but I think I look decent. My shoulders are especially good. What I've done for shoulders over the last couple years is use very light free weights (laugh if you will, but I started with 5lb ones my Mom had.) I hold the weights to my side with my arms straight and while keeping my arms straight I lift them straight out to my sides. Becuase I use weights that are pretty light I do like a million reps to failure. Of course I also try to lift them out in front of me sometimes or slightly behind me to work all of my shoulders.

I'm sure this sounds retarded to you guys that know what you're doing, but I have very dense, hard, shoulder muscle and you can see all the various striations in them when I move my arms around. So I'm happy with it.

Someone tell me how I can do my shoulders better and maybe it will help the guy who started this thread.


*edit* I'm sorry I didn't search first, I'm an idiot newbie.
 
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If you can do dips, chins and pullups, do those. Those work the shoulders too.
 
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