"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is This An Effect of Increased Testosterone?

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I wanted to throw this out there so folks can share their opinion with me. As men, we all know that it is normal to have a desire to be intimate with a woman, have sex and stuff. Ever since I began working out consistently since last spring and my muscles and body seem to be steadily expanding, I have noticed that my sexual drive seems pretty high. I not only have a strong desire to have sex with a woman, but interestingly, with more than one woman as well. These feelings are most powerful at night when I'm laying down in bed. Perhaps part of it might have to do with the fact that I haven't had a girlfriend in a very long time and have therefore not been intimate with any woman in a while. However, I was wondering if this could also be a natural effect of an increase in masculinity and of testosterone in the body?


I mean...I used to be very reserved when it comes to sex, and often quite shy to be adventurous in terms of different styles and positions. These days, I fantasize about carrying a woman who I might be dating, putting her on a big, wooden dinner table and having sex with her on it. Stuff that I didn't use to imagine doing in the past. I'm suddenly thinking more about action, telling myself in my head that I am a man and I just seem to feel incredibly macho. It's amazing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol...since I started working out...ditto

Except the part about carrying the woman...I'd prefer to have her just walk? :D
 

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Re:

Thanks for your responses, guys. I suspected something was up based on the developments I've been noticing. I guess the Testosterone thing is definitely helpful, but at the same time, you need a woman who would respond positively to you when you make a move. When that happens, the adult games can then begin. I definitely need to step up my hunt for a mate to satisfy the feelings I mentioned earlier.
 

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Thanks for your responses, guys. I suspected something had to be up given the developments I've been noticing lately. And while Testosterone might be one's best friend in the game, finding a woman who will respond positively when you make a move is absolutely essential so that the adult games can begin. I need to step up my hunt for a mate to satisfy the feelings and urges I mentioned earlier.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys, please ignore those multiple responses. It wasn't intentional. I had problems with my computer and before I knew it, it had sent about three or more copies of my reply to the feedback I got from two respondents. Sorry about that.
 
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Re: Computer Problems-My Apologies, Guys

Guys, please accept my sincere apology. I've been having computer trouble and I just realized the foolish thing posted my reply on here three times. I'm sorry about that. I don't want any one to think I'm crazy.
 

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is this true? i've been working out alot, and i have noticed a big change in my personality, even though i'm not all cut now... does increased muscle mass increase testosterone?
 

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When you are young(25 and under) you have a buttload of testosorone in your body. When you work out your legs(squats/leg presses) it releases them,thus allowing you to get more size quicker and wanting women more. I recently started doing my legs about 4 months ago and I swear sometimes I imagine myself putting some chicks through headboards even when they are right in front of me talking.
 
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