"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this an Approach Invitation or what?

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Popeyes

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2 or 3 times now I've been waiting in line at this coffee spot in my school and I've noticed girls will be in line in front of me and play with their hair a little and start turning around and looking behind them as if looking for something, but they don't actually look at me. They don't do it just once either, they usually do it several times. Today a girl was doing it and then after awhile she just abruptly left even though she was kind of close to the front of the line, and it seemed like she was shaking her head as she left (she left and walked forwards so I could see her leaving). Next time this happens I'm going to talk to the girls doing it, but does anybody have any experience with this type of thing happening to them?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint

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Why are you waiting for Indicators of Interest before approaching someone you like?

If you see someone that interests you, approach her and open her.

Sure simplifies things, doesn't it?
 
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Sean O

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Yeah, it's an invitation. They're trying to get you to notice them.
 
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