Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this AFC wussy, or not at all?

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In my LTR of about 5 months, my GF got surgery with something on her leg. We're both in HS and she has to talk around with crutches and a brace now. I see her at the end of the day so I'll usually carry her books to and from class, and go with her after school to her locker and classes where she needs to make up work. As her BF, it makes sense i'm helping her out right? It's not like she can carry the books herself? I get the feeling im being this needy, wimpy AFC but then again..she is my GF and it'd be nuts for me to not help her out when i can.

Am i right or wrong, i think i just need some reassurance here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xblitz44x

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You're a pusssy. That bytch should be fending for herself - they wanted equal rights, didn't they? Tomorrow, snatch one of her crutches from her and break it over her back. That's what a true PUA would do...girls like bad boys. Take care.
 

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If she seems to really appreciate it then keep it up since its ur LTR. If she seems to be taking it for granted then back off and let her figure out how to work a backpack.

If you take off to class when she actually "needs/wants" your help that leaves it open for some douche to come in and make you look dumb by helping her when u wouldnt.
 

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if sosuave.com makes you wonder if helping her carry her books when she is injured and ur GF....maybe u should stop coming here
 

AmIAFC

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Help your GF out but don't seem all happy or honored while you're doing it. In fact, make it known that its annoying you to some extent. She'll find an AFC to carry her **** while you're banging her afterwards.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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frivolousz21

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Help your GF out but don't seem all happy or honored while you're doing it. In fact, make it known that its annoying you to some extent. She'll find an AFC to carry her **** while you're banging her afterwards.



I hope your being sarcastic with this post
 

AmIAFC

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I hope your being sarcastic with this post
I was playing along with xblitz.
 

frivolousz21

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gotya..ive been too hyped up today on caffiene...these 12 hour days are killin me
 

speedo_meme

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i agree with friv, this guy has been on this site a little too long...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
You're a pusssy. That bytch should be fending for herself - they wanted equal rights, didn't they? Tomorrow, snatch one of her crutches from her and break it over her back. That's what a true PUA would do...girls like bad boys. Take care.

You beat me too it!!! :p



PIMP
 

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being a real man is doing what YOU think is right.

You are more AFC for asking about it than doing it.. you know what i mean?

(not saying it in a bad way, just trying to get a point accross)

be a ****ing gentleman and help her out, and who the **** is going to tell YOU that what you're doing is wrong?

of course, when my ex had a leg surgery and was laying at home bored, i mostly used to stop by for *******s.. hmm. i guess i was a bad boyfriend. :D
 

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
You're a pusssy. That bytch should be fending for herself - they wanted equal rights, didn't they? Tomorrow, snatch one of her crutches from her and break it over her back. That's what a true PUA would do...girls like bad boys. Take care.

OMG

i just spilled my iced freakachinno all over the keyboard..

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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