Is this AFC or sweet?

[DJinTraining06]

I was talkin to a female friend last night about what girls love in guys. And shehad mentioned somethin bout when a girl is sick u should go bring her soup without telling her and leave it on her doorstep. Now i agree with her on this if its a serious girlfriend, but i asked her if it was weird to do that with a girl youve only seen a few times. She said no way not weird at all, the girl will melt if u did that!

Now i personally think shes full of sh*t. If a guy youve only seen a few times, brigns u soup, doesnt that spell out chump? its almost creepy in my opinion, wat dou guys think? This friend of mine is weird she actually likes whimpy guys, she told me she loved when her ex bf cried to get her back, and stuff like that. I think shes just a rare woman, most r repulsed by crying and sweetness right?

 

[Heyzeus]

she sounds weird, that's not usual.

 

[Warboss Alex]

I think shes just a rare woman, most r repulsed by crying and sweetness right?

guys, you have so much to learn.

and the problem is, that you're asking yourself whether it's AFC (whatever that means, I still don't know lol) or sweet... why should our opinions matter? what do YOU think it is?

if it's something you'd do then it's fine, it's part of your personality, it's who you are.. does it matter whether it's considered afc or sweet or whatever. it's YOU.

personally I think it would be a very gentlemanly gesture, and there's not one woman in the world who wouldn't appreciate that if they've been going out with you a few times.

always be human!!

 

[DJinTraining06]

guys, you have so much to learn.

and the problem is, that you're asking yourself whether it's AFC (whatever that means, I still don't know lol) or sweet... why should our opinions matter? what do YOU think it is?

if it's something you'd do then it's fine, it's part of your personality, it's who you are.. does it matter whether it's considered afc or sweet or whatever. it's YOU.

personally I think it would be a very gentlemanly gesture, and there's not one woman in the world who wouldn't appreciate that if they've been going out with you a few times.

always be human!!

Hmmm ur right, i think this sosuave stuff is warping my brain. That is my personality to do that stuff, does it make me any less of a man to do that? No, it doesnt mean im needy, doenst mean im a wuss, its a nice gesture.

 

[AlekNovi]

If I ask you, would you like it if a girl came home to your house, rang the ball in the sexiest lingerie possible, the moment you opened the door she stripped your pants and started passionately sucking on your member, and making the sexiest possible sounds, then thrusting her breats in your face. Would like it? HELL YEAH.

Now I want you to re-read the above paragraph with having "girl" in mind being 420 pounds, with big moustaches, hairy body, zits all over the face and no teeth. Imagine the same thing. I bet you can't even read one of the sentences above without feeling EEWWWW down right to the core of your being.

It does spell out chump for the average guy who's seen a girl one, two, three times.

I like how one guy put it. When girls give you this *hypthetical* "if you do x for a girl who's y, she's gonna pee her pants in delight", they're imaging the perfect guy, who she's had the perfect chemistry from moment zero. They're always hoping the guy they're starting to date is "the ONE" (they wouldn't even try to date him if he wasn't potentially THE ONE)... but if you're not... THAT most perfect of most perfect possible of human creatures. Any of those hypothetical (if guy does x) kinda BS flies out the window

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Is it just me or does anyone else ever wonder why most women seem to always be looking for a free meal?

 

[mexican_player2]

YOU DONT PUT SOUP WITHOUT telling her and leave it on her doorstep unless she is a CAT

 

[DJinTraining06]

YOU DONT PUT SOUP WITHOUT telling her and leave it on her doorstep unless she is a CAT

haha i just busted out laughing at my cubicle at this. I left out a detail, my friend said to leave it on the doorstep and call her to tell her as u drive off. Still seems like leaving food for an animal but i dunno my freind is weird.

 

[penkitten]

when i bring someone soup because they are sick, they always say "thanks mom"

 

[DJ_in_making]

Sometimes the same thing can be either AFC or don juanish it depends. Sometimes guys on this sight think its bad to be sweet, it isn't.

What is your past experience with this girl? You say you just met her? If that's the case it might just be a little bit AFC, like you're trying to win her over by working hard.:flowers:

If she's like a girlfriend or something who doesn't walk all over you, crap like that would be very good.

From what u told us about this girl it sounds like a bad idea, b/c she likes boys who she can toy with (guys crying wtf?!!) unless you don't mind being those guys (which some guys don't) don't flip backwards for this chick. Tell her something ****y like

"Shouldn't the woman be in the kitchen cooking for me?" in a joking manner of course.