I have a second date with this girl on Saturday afternoon. Things are going smooth, we talk like once a week and after our last sighting the touching started. We ran into each other at a bar, so it wasn't a date at all. That's when we set this date up, it's an 8 mile hike over some bluffs, a swamp, and some woodlands. Now I know she's mentioned to me twice that her favorite food is brocoli. Since I invited her it's up to me to plan it all out. I know I'm going to take some food for when we chill half way through, she's mentioned to me twice that her favorite food is brocoli. I'm thinking of taking some cold pasta solid that has brocoli in it. I think it's pretty slick.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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its not super slick, but its a start. i did that for my last girlfriend when we were dating. after a hike i had some food set aside for us, an she mentioned a couple of times that she liked spinach dip.. kinda wierd but yeah i got some an brought it.. i got some wicked attention that night 
. you'll get some action.. she'll like the fact that u listen to her.. just dont cater to all her needs. deprive her a little.
yeah go for it, any little bit helps..
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. you'll get some action.. she'll like the fact that u listen to her.. just dont cater to all her needs. deprive her a little.yeah go for it, any little bit helps..
peace
Don't worry man, I'm not catering to her every need. I don't think she's ever been hiking and when I was telling her about it I don't know if she realized I mean going miles where some spots are pretty steep. But then again, I usually don't opt for anything less than ten miles.
hahah dude... no i was saying you have a good idea.. an hiking is a wicked thing to do on a date. but dont get too carried away, keep it simple an fun. its the second date right.. an that seems like good timing., shows that you listen. an if she dosnt happen to notice the broccoli. dont make a point of it to tell her. it comes across as kinda needy if the IL arnt there.. but dude u seem to be doin fine. have fun, an get some action.
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