"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this a test

clueless61

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Ok here's more info on the situation, her half sister is my cousin and all that, so when i first started showin her interest she seemed to get a lil scared and said she saw me as a cousin so i backed off, then once i did that she starts commin on to me and showin me interest, but she seems extremely nieve and innocent so i was a lil leary about it. we hung out all weekend at my house she even stayed over 2 days, then i took her home and on msn she started tellin my how she's goin to go have sex with her bf and askin how i was in bed and all that so i tell her she will have to find out first hand she laughed and said in sue time, we left it at that and the next day she starts hangin around this other dude while still occationally flirtin with me, But it just seems like she's tryin to make me jelous anyway she can, it also seems like she wants me to CHASE her and i dont normally do this so My question to you guys is, Is this a test? is she tryin to make me jelous and why would she do that? and Is it worth me workin for and chasing her, if i do wont that scare her away anyways shoud i not get her to chase me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So wait a minute...her half-sister is your cousin? Which means she's your half-cousin? Which means either your aunt or your uncle's child, but not both? Even if it's not on the blood-side, first-cousin by relation is a little f'ed up. :eek:

Just that alone should dissuade you from putting in any "chasing." Either way, if she makes you jealous, she owns you. If she really IS trying to make you jealous, then she already IS chasing you...in a girl-sort-of-way. If she's not and you're misreading....WTF am I saying, she's your COUSIN for Chrissakes. :D

Tell her about the other women YOU'RE sleeping with. What? No other women? That's a problem right there.
 

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NO NO NO she aint my cousin, neither of her parents are related to me she was my uncles step daughter for a few years, I aint no hick if she was my cousin then i wouldn't be here right now, her mom was engaged witrh my uncle, thats it
 

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Still, if her dad is now your uncle (I'm assuming that it's your blood aunt, otherwise she would be your blood cousin) then she is your cousin by marriage, whether you like the term or not.

Can't you get a date outside of the (extended) family? Seriously, if you screw over this girl (or she, you) then the family is going to be involved every step of the way. Is it really worth taking a chance of alienating half your family to get into your cousin's panties?
 

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clean those dirty incest thoughts by masturbating about your cousin instead of banging them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
clean those dirty incest thoughts by masturbating about your cousin instead of banging them.
LMAO!



Anyways, like these guys already told u, don't mess with relatives, whether they're blood or not! You always see them whether be it at a family gathering or whaterver... so listen to DJ_Dork and get those nasty thoughts outta your head ;)
 

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No, you guys are gettin the wrong idea here,I knew her for like 2 yrs when we were young, then her mom and my uncle(not her dad) split i now Just met her again so no feeling of bein closely related, just said that to bug me cuz i always hit on her
 

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So now you want to CHANGE what you wrote the first time.......

Look, you need it that bad, then hit it......But when half of your family isn't speaking to you and you need a co-signer for your college loans, don't come crying here.
 
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