"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this a test? Or kind of wall? or...

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It was in the evening. I went with some friends from school to a bar and there were also some chics from our school. I came a little bit later so that I could have the attention of all them. It's cool to have it because it's a opportunity to make a cool joke.....you know.

So I went to the big table where they all were sitting and I saw a HB and she was a 9. I took a chair and sit next to her. So the waiter came and asked me if I wanted anything to drink. I thought ok thats a chance to make a joke. I said:" do you have milk or anything like that?" (and all of them drank beer :) so they had to laugh about the joke so I could get my attention.

Alright. I thought that I have to begin with neghitting her. OK I knew the girl a little bit yet. So dont think that I didnt even introduce myself and started with neghitting.

It was cool. She laughed with me and yeah it was a joky time. Then she asked me if I also can be serious. I thought ok now it's time for some Jeffrie's Patterns and I said: "oh yes. sure I can." I started with the rollercoaster pattern: It's simple: I told her about a guy I saw once on tv and he was a rollercoaster freak. And he told about his first Rcoaster-ride. So I described it with a lot of details like: and the rollercoaster moved on slowly and he saw the peak and his heart started to hit and his breath and so on..... She was interested in the story. And at the end I said: "this whole thing sounds to me like a relationship between two people." She agreed with me and she described it again:" yeah you are right on this peak you dont know how fast it's going down and it's like an adventure for both......blabla" ok.

After this I thought it's time for kino stuff....so I did palmreading. I took her hand and started to describe the lines. Then she tried a neghit :) and so I let her hand and said: "ok if you talk to me like this I am not going to do palmreading." And she said:"oh sorry please do it" and she stretched her arm towards me. So I went on....

OK now I thought :) it's time to have fun with this girl and to go away from all those noobs who were also sitting on the same table. I told her that we are going to play a game. I took her hand and we went away from the bar and we where on a place where a lot of people were walking around. I said to her that she starts to say anything I have to do with a guy, girl, man or woman. E.g. go towards an old man and say something like this loudly so that anyone could hear:" hey fred how are you? its a long time ago! damn your body! what did you do? damn I want to fvck you now! and so on...." and I said if she does not dare to do such a funny approach then she has to pay me a drink and if I do not dare then I have to pay...

She laughed a lot during this and it was a big fun! The important thing here was that during the whole thing I made a lot of kino. E.g. if we crossed the street I took her hand or if she laughed I gave her a hug etc. Alright.......

Unfortunately, there was no good moment or opportunity to kiss her...damn she is a fvcking hard 9 and it's not easy to get her.......

OK, we went back to the bar and it was late, so all went home. When I arrived I wrote her a funny SMS like: good night silly. she wrote back and said : yeah good night it was a lot of fun today...
I wrote again: yeah it was. ok go to bed now and prepare a good drink for me because you laughed during our game so you have lost.

BUT THEN, THIS FVCKING HB WROTE SOMETHING LIKE THAT: hehe nice try buddy :) dream on.......

So I asked myself: WTF is this? A test? A wall? I dont know. What should be my next move? THX for your help guys......

CYA
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounded like you tried too hard to impress her. Next time when you go a big party sit by the ugliest chick and make her laugh - it will get the better looking ones more interested in you.

You gave her a ****y SMS so she just kicked it back in your face.

Just ask her out and you'll find out what the deal is...
 

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the sit next to the ugly chick routine can back fire
BIG TYME!!!
 

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Originally posted by Master of Seduction


It was cool. She laughed with me and yeah it was a joky time.

She laughed a lot during this and it was a big fun!

hahaha. Next time my girlfriend and i are joking around i'm gonna be like "it's a joky time!" or "this is a big fun!"

Sorry i know english isn't your first language, but that just makes me crack up.


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Kino isn't hugging her and trying to hold her hand all the time and stuff. I think she's not even supposed to really realize consciously you're touching her and if she does it's supposed to be coincidental and "part of your personality" and not look forced. I've never really gotten the hang of it because it just feels awkward touching other people. I do it a little bit though (hand brushing back or elbow when passing by or making a point or something).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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