"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is this a super red flag?

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My on again off again good girl says she hates her face because it reminds her of her dad and her dad is slightly crazy and yadda yadda. She doesn't like her dad.

She works and lives a regular life. But when I say she's pretty and looks good cuz she does, sometimes she accepts it, but other times its just a reminder to her of her issues.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sunnykhatri736

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Drop and next her .
U dont want negativity in ur life .
U just need fun.
She is just a physcho and attention seeking girl .
Never talk to a girl who keeps talking about how much she hates her ex , friend or family members.
 

thatfeel

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I wouldn't drop her. Follow the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of the time ignore the stupid sh!t she says and the other 20 percent call her out on the real red flags.
 

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Wouldnt say it's a huge red flag but thing's like that can wear you down and suck the enjoyment out of thing's.
I've been suckered into crap like that the last few week's and found it draining.Maybe i'm just an intolerant ******* though?
 

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Grab her by the ears and lick her face as if your a St Bernard.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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