Hey guys,
Part of my self-image issue is that I usually have a hard time imagining girls wanting to spend time with me in the first place. Almost like i don't have anything to offer them. And as we know, with that kind of outlook, it is nigh impossible to make yourself become The Great Catch in not only their eyes, but yours as well.
So I was talking with a coworker at lunch today about cooking, since she asked me why I didn't have anything healthy today (I was prepping some good ol' ramen), and then asked me if I cooked. Long story short, after talking with her for a few minutes I began to think about how good I am at cooking and how much other people enjoy whatever I make for them. Then almost instinctively, I started thinking about my other good qualities and how they set me apart from and above other people, and how much women would love that about me. It was then that it hit me --
Women would LOVE to have me cook for them. They would have a great time being with me, out on the town or during a quiet night at home, because I'm fun as hell and people have a good time with me. Though I have only slept with 2 women, I know that I am a great lover and know how to pleasure a girl. There are so many things that women would love about me if only I could get together with them!
Thinking this way made me feel like a catch for the first time since I can remember. I KNOW I'm a catch. I KNOW that women would fall head over heels to get what I offered if they ONLY KNEW ABOUT IT! I AM a great catch.
I'm not sure what to do with this knowledge, but at the very least, would you guys agree that this represents a big step taken towards inner game, confidence, and actually BEING The Great Catch? For today, even if it were for only a brief moment, I truly believed that I am the Prize.
Part of my self-image issue is that I usually have a hard time imagining girls wanting to spend time with me in the first place. Almost like i don't have anything to offer them. And as we know, with that kind of outlook, it is nigh impossible to make yourself become The Great Catch in not only their eyes, but yours as well.
So I was talking with a coworker at lunch today about cooking, since she asked me why I didn't have anything healthy today (I was prepping some good ol' ramen), and then asked me if I cooked. Long story short, after talking with her for a few minutes I began to think about how good I am at cooking and how much other people enjoy whatever I make for them. Then almost instinctively, I started thinking about my other good qualities and how they set me apart from and above other people, and how much women would love that about me. It was then that it hit me --
Women would LOVE to have me cook for them. They would have a great time being with me, out on the town or during a quiet night at home, because I'm fun as hell and people have a good time with me. Though I have only slept with 2 women, I know that I am a great lover and know how to pleasure a girl. There are so many things that women would love about me if only I could get together with them!
Thinking this way made me feel like a catch for the first time since I can remember. I KNOW I'm a catch. I KNOW that women would fall head over heels to get what I offered if they ONLY KNEW ABOUT IT! I AM a great catch.
I'm not sure what to do with this knowledge, but at the very least, would you guys agree that this represents a big step taken towards inner game, confidence, and actually BEING The Great Catch? For today, even if it were for only a brief moment, I truly believed that I am the Prize.