Alright, I'll start off by saying, I'll never ever let any females to think that any form of communication other than in person or on the phone is acceptable. Although less intimidating, and more reaction times, it is just not worth it.
But basically little foreground on HER. She came in the bar with a friend's friend. They came in a group of friends. After a while, she came up to me and introduced herself, I wasn't trying to hook up that night nor I was during that period of time. Didn't act like I was interested, but she ended up carrying the conversation and continue with the conversation. Asked for my number, and in our conversation we talked about this karoke place in the city I live in, it was the day after, which I went through with it anyway, because she was really interested and called me to make sure. Everything went good, I spoke to her few times afterwards, most of the time through text messages because she keeps on using it and say "I HOPE YOU'RE HAVING A GOOD DAY!" and craps like that. Here's her game kicking it:
I had a text message conversation with her on Wednesday, small talks, then I asked if she's free on Thursday. She says she has family thing at 5, but free afterwards. I waited for her call, nothing happened. Called her the day after, asked her if she was free that night, she says she's hanging out with her girlfriend, but on the same breath she says she's free Saturday night. I hesitated, because I already made plans. She said, it's ok, you don't have to make plans for me. I said in a ****y voice, it's alright, I'll figure out a way to work." or whatever, I don't remember. I told her to call me and said good night. Saturday came around, she didn't call again. This afternoon she left me the following text messages:
So I didn't hear nothing from her last night, this is the text message she wrote me today.
Her: Hey u ok? What happened 2 u last night?
Me: I am good, you? What do you mean last night?
Her: I thought we were going 2 hang out
Me: Oh, I must have been confused. I thought you were suppose to call me.
Her: Its all good
**small talks**
Me: So you free tonight?
Her: I wish I could! I am stuck at work & family thing after that. How about Mon?
Me: I am free to see you after 8:30.
Her: K give me a call then.
Me: You are one busy lady, keep me chasing you like this.
Her: r u not having fun?
Me: Don't make it too hard, I don't know if I can keep up.
Her: Don't worry, I'll make time.
It's pretty obvious what she's doing I think. She has made herself very avaliable on the phone to me the first few days, then all of sudden she becomes unavaliable and not calling me? I don't know, I have a slight idea of what's going on, but looking for some opinions.
But basically little foreground on HER. She came in the bar with a friend's friend. They came in a group of friends. After a while, she came up to me and introduced herself, I wasn't trying to hook up that night nor I was during that period of time. Didn't act like I was interested, but she ended up carrying the conversation and continue with the conversation. Asked for my number, and in our conversation we talked about this karoke place in the city I live in, it was the day after, which I went through with it anyway, because she was really interested and called me to make sure. Everything went good, I spoke to her few times afterwards, most of the time through text messages because she keeps on using it and say "I HOPE YOU'RE HAVING A GOOD DAY!" and craps like that. Here's her game kicking it:
I had a text message conversation with her on Wednesday, small talks, then I asked if she's free on Thursday. She says she has family thing at 5, but free afterwards. I waited for her call, nothing happened. Called her the day after, asked her if she was free that night, she says she's hanging out with her girlfriend, but on the same breath she says she's free Saturday night. I hesitated, because I already made plans. She said, it's ok, you don't have to make plans for me. I said in a ****y voice, it's alright, I'll figure out a way to work." or whatever, I don't remember. I told her to call me and said good night. Saturday came around, she didn't call again. This afternoon she left me the following text messages:
So I didn't hear nothing from her last night, this is the text message she wrote me today.
Her: Hey u ok? What happened 2 u last night?
Me: I am good, you? What do you mean last night?
Her: I thought we were going 2 hang out
Me: Oh, I must have been confused. I thought you were suppose to call me.
Her: Its all good
**small talks**
Me: So you free tonight?
Her: I wish I could! I am stuck at work & family thing after that. How about Mon?
Me: I am free to see you after 8:30.
Her: K give me a call then.
Me: You are one busy lady, keep me chasing you like this.
Her:
r u not having fun?Me: Don't make it too hard, I don't know if I can keep up.
Her: Don't worry, I'll make time.
It's pretty obvious what she's doing I think. She has made herself very avaliable on the phone to me the first few days, then all of sudden she becomes unavaliable and not calling me? I don't know, I have a slight idea of what's going on, but looking for some opinions.
