Is This a Sign of Weakness?..

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

MrRebornMan

New Member

Sep 4, 2015

Is this a sign of weakness or knowing what I want? Pretty much, been exclusively dating this girl, got her to tell me that her interest level has dropped(my fault, I got comfortable once I "had" her). I said hey, let's go on a few more dates and if it's not there, I'm just going to break it off. She agreed to dating a bit more. Now to the main point, I was thinking about asking her if she's willing to try on her part because if she truly isn't feeling it, I don't want to waste my time.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.