"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this a s*it test? How to handle it?

jesr

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When a female keeps offering you little things, helping you with practicalities, invests in your interaction and is always willing to help you?

And how to react/handle it?

1. Reject everything, conveying that I don't need nobody to "take care" of me.
2. Naturally accept everything, conveying that me being a high valuable male, it's normal that girls want to please and impress.


PS: for what it's worth this female is slavic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fin9

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She is investing in you, she is following you. Isn't that what men are looking for in a woman ?
 

salinechow

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Im stunned at the questions sometimes.

"I just found some gold under a tree. Should I take it or just make my own money?"

Really!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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She is priming you for when she can take it all away and make you turn AFC. Farmers kill their cows but they don't let them starve. They feed and fatten them for slaughter time.

Accept but keep your guard up.
 

BrainDamage92

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Ah man women are ****ed up always expect anything their brain operates on brainwash and manipulation so sophisticated (and useless) it will make you puke so dont dwell on **** much just say "I like you" take her hand or simply grab her ass and be done with it

coulda shoulda woulda ah **** that **** thinkin man

a man knows what he wants and grabs what he wants by the ass
 

jesr

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El Payaso said:
She is priming you for when she can take it all away and make you turn AFC. Farmers kill their cows but they don't let them starve. They feed and fatten them for slaughter time.

Accept but keep your guard up.
Interesting. I've been accepting but not displaying that I'm impressed or even thanking her. Also, sometimes when I refuse, she gets pissed (I tell her that's her problem).

When I first met this female, we hit it up nicely, she flirted a lot, I escalated but when I went for the close she flaked saying she had someone else. I erased her and went on. Months later we meet again for professional reasons, but I act distant and strictly professional. And then she behaves like this.

I posted this because whenever this situation happened with other females, it was a done deal. But in this case, why continue to display interest and invest after having refused my d*ck?
 
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