"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this a result of my DJ/game skill or was there nothing I can do about it?

shark

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Girlfriend and I..along with all of our friends had a friends huge party the other night. It was about 45 minutes away, and we all drank on the way there and the party was pretty good. I danced a lot with my girlfriend, and all was good. Before the party, like the week before she kind of hinted we would get a little bit more adventerous (we're in H.S...havent gotten to fingers/bj's yet..which is what she was hinting). So the party ends really late and were home by 2-30 am or so. She's really tired..as is everyone. Its some of my guy friends and her and one of her friends. She just goes to sleep with her friend on a couch and when I kind of mention to her that we should sleep together and kinda tells me shes just so tried.

When everyone left I had to ask her a question about the next morning, so I told her it was her last chance to go to bed with me in my comfortbale bed or whatever. SHe was soo tried but got up and came with me. We didn't kiss, or do anything..and again..she was dead-tired and sleeping

I guess i expected so much b/c of these sexual hints she gave me (going out for almost 3 1/2 months without a BJ is making me nuts and anxious) but then again how can I blame her when were at a party and got home 2am and she woke up like 8 that morning. Again, is this my fault or not..b/c i DID feel like it was but i mean the girl was tired whatya gonna do?

What do you guys thinK?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Modro

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not much hcance when its that time in the morning and she wants to crash
 

Q-Pid

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3 1/2 months and no sex? How old are you bud? (Not an insult - genuine question)
 
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