"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j0n024

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I have been noticing that I have a pretty ****ty memory....:cry: . I mean this has happened on 2 occasions now where I start to open a girl and she say's

"You already asked for my name"....that's when I'm like "Really,'' and just start to game her with less success, what I need to know is if this is bad or not. I think it is but I dont know how to remember most of the slvts that I talk to anyways besides the uber cute ones so I would need some advice on how to remember or if there is a way to game them without looking like a creep.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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j0n024

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That's the problem I dont do night game...which means I only do day game and I just go to the mall and other places. I think I understand what you mean though, I'll go to a different city's mall and other places the only bad part is that since I'm so close to the border that there is actually a 65% chance that the girl will talk spanish and I suck at spanish.
 

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Definitely go to other malls. Trust me, there are lots of hot girls there :-D and yea, be a little bit away from the border if u can't quite speak the language.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It's not good to forget names in this game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j0n024 said:
I have been noticing that I have a pretty ****ty memory....:cry: . I mean this has happened on 2 occasions now where I start to open a girl and she say's

"You already asked for my name"....that's when I'm like "Really,'' and just start to game her with less success, what I need to know is if this is bad or not. I think it is but I dont know how to remember most of the slvts that I talk to anyways besides the uber cute ones so I would need some advice on how to remember or if there is a way to game them without looking like a creep.
How about stop asking what their name is, and you won't run into this particular problem. Forgeting a name, due to carelesness or selective listening can sure backfire. Just stay away from it and let them introduce themselves to you. Let them tell you what their name is. The only time you want to get their name is when you have them write it down on the paper with a phone number, or imput it on your cell phone.
 

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If you do get the name, repeat it alot when you talk to her, like a car salesman does. This ensures you dont forget and bonds you with the customer.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Dongfu said:
If you do get the name, repeat it alot when you talk to her, like a car salesman does. This ensures you dont forget and bonds you with the customer.
Yup, Saying the girls name when talking to her is like music to her ears.
 

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I see haha ok guy's ...jeez I am probably going to need some cuecards just to remember the girls one with name and picture haha lol.
 

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you have to look very very hot cause women they need tight securities.you guys are all jelous of me oh.you will never see me in this site.am going to build my own site after i become a master of sexy master of seductionist.adious monkey ass faces.see ya
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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?? Hmm so your going to become a"Master of sexy master of seduction," huh oh ya well I am going to make my own site with black jack and hookers....ahh forget the black jack!
 
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