Is this a possibility?

[captain55]

So this is not the first time Ive had chicks all over me, suddenly lose feelings for me. Im talking about chicks falling crazy hard for me, chasing the hell ouit of me or even dating me and being all over me , and then weeks or even months later…telling me they are not feeling it anymore.

Is it possible my game has gotten so good on first impressions and dates that it is tricking women into being sexually attracted to me, who were not ever truly physically attracted to me? Or do a lot of you guys deal with the same "Im not feeling it anymore" from chicks?

 

[guru1000]

You got the order reversed my friend. You have the looks; your game sucks. Just as I was telling Yannick earlier today, looks are not all, especially in maintaining attraction.

Having read a couple of your threads, you really need to enter the realm of "not giving a fvck" and chill. Your overindulgence and preoccupation in your inability to hold an LTR is unconsciously deterring these women by acts that you are not consciously aware of in your sub-communications.

Just relax and be a cool-cat in thinking. And be bold in the execution of your will.

Your game must be tailored to your audience. There's no lunchbox game, one size fits all. If your girl has been played, you show her love. If she's used to guys worshipping her, give her indifference. Pay attention the the cues and give the girl what she needs. Study your target and then execute. It becomes simple once you lock it up a few times.

 

[captain55]

You got the order reversed my friend. You have the looks; your game sucks. Just as I was telling Yannick earlier today, looks are not all, especially in maintaining attraction.

Having read a couple of your threads, you really need to enter the realm of "not giving a fvck" and chill. Your overindulgence and preoccupation in your inability to hold an LTR is unconsciously deterring these women by acts that you are not consciously aware of in your sub-communications.

Just relax and be a cool-cat in thinking. And be bold in the execution of your will.

Your game must be tailored to your audience. There's no lunchbox game, one size fits all. If your girl has been played, you show her love. If she's used to guys worshipping her, give her indifference. Pay attention the the cues and give the girl what she needs. Study your target and then execute. It becomes simple once you lock it up a few times.

Bro my most recent chick dropped me for the complete opposite reason, she said I didn't care and didn't give a ****. She was used to guys chasing after her, I ignored her…and successfully got her in bed. Mission accomplished...But I was thrown a curveball when she wouldn't put out… she just wasn't getting wet with me when I was making out with her which tells me she wasn't truly attracted to me.

 

[guru1000]

What a woman says rarely is the underlying truth. I have a hunch your preoccupations to fvck her manifested as insecure behavioral patterns. You cannot mask your thinking; and you must admit to yourself that you have been preoccupied in thoughts of fvcking her or in your ability (or lack thereof) to fvck her, yes or no? Look at your threads over the last several months. Let's be honest with ourselves first.

It would be impossible to diagnose the situation without all the facts on the table, and many of these facts you, yourself, are not aware of because of unconscious behavior that you are projecting, spawn by your deleterious thinking (evidenced by your questions in previous threads). Then you come to SoSuave and ask what's wrong. No one can legitimately answer this without witnessing all the unconscious behavioral patterns you projected.

Look, you can't fool women. You can pretend you have game, but they will read you blindly and eat you up. I've seen your pics, and your looks are maximized. Focus solely on inner game right now.

 

[thatfeel]

Bro my most recent chick dropped me for the complete opposite reason, she said I didn't care and didn't give a ****. She was used to guys chasing after her, I ignored her…and successfully got her in bed. Mission accomplished...

We call this a sh!t test.

But I was thrown a curveball when she wouldn't put out… she just wasn't getting wet with me when I was making out with her which tells me she wasn't truly attracted to me.

She was probably trying to see if she could successfully deny you and keep you around after the denial. She fvcked you when you were strong, and as guru is stating, you might have shown some weakness that prompted this test. RIP in peace. Move onto the next one.

 

[captain55]

What a woman says rarely is the underlying truth. I have a hunch your preoccupations to fvck her manifested as insecure behavioral patterns. You cannot mask your thinking; and you must admit to yourself that you have been preoccupied in thoughts of fvcking her or in your ability (or lack thereof) to fvck her, yes or no? Look at your threads over the last several months. Let's be honest with ourselves first.

It would be impossible to diagnose the situation without all the facts on the table, and many of these facts you, yourself, are not aware of because of unconscious behavior that you are projecting, spawn by your deleterious thinking (evidenced by your questions in previous threads). Then you come to SoSuave and ask what's wrong. No one can legitimately answer this without witnessing all the unconscious behavioral patterns you projected.

Look, you can't fool women. You can pretend you have game, but they will read you blindly and eat you up. I've seen your pics, and your looks are maximized. Focus solely on inner game right now.

Makes sense…because the only chicks I usually end up banging, are the ones I lose interest in once i start liking bother. The moment I start liking one of them, its game over. I think Im just going to force myself to spin plates every time I start to like a chick, even when I don't want to. At this point its the only thing thats probably ever going to work for me.