"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is This A Normal Fantasy To Have?? Lol

soulforge

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Ok sometimes when i am banging a chick, i like the idea of some other dude fuking her too..

Even when i,m with a girl i am kinda serious about, or i like alot.. i still like the idea of banging her with another dude..

Or she sucks off another guy, while i fuk her.

You guys ever think like this haha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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soulforge said:
Ok sometimes when i am banging a chick, i like the idea of some other dude fuking her too..

Even when i,m with a girl i am kinda serious about, or i like alot.. i still like the idea of banging her with another dude..

Or she sucks off another guy, while i fuk her.

You guys ever think like this haha
Probably just the taboo factor, although that is the last thing I'd be considering with a girl I "like."

Not that rare though, I know a couple guys that get off on their girlfriends getting manhandled by strangers lol. One even sends his gf out trolling to video tape her encounters for him.
 

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I heard plenty of people with such fantasy, a friend of mine even told me if I wanted to do his gf with him, I refused because it was kinda akward and also didnt want to mess them.

An other time met a couple at the club and had sex with her while he was watching, then when I was done he banged her.
They told me they like to do like that, sometime a guy for her and other times a girl for him, honestly I wouldnt consider anything like that if I was in a relationship not even with an other girl.
 

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No. If I really like a girl then I want to possess her body. Mark my territory.
I've been in open relationships, but still not like that.

There seem to be a lot of guys getting off on this... these days "cuckold porn" is all over the internets. Basically the dude getting pu55ywhipped while a huge black man (implied sexual superiority) handles his wife.

Can anybody here tell me why this is attractive in any way?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Huffman said:
Can anybody here tell me why this is attractive in any way?
1. bi
2. thrill of humiliation
3. taboo/novelty
4. The fact that she is having fun is fun for you


Definitely not for me as I fall onto the "dominant" power side of the spectrum. Some guys do enjoy surrendering power and "observing the show" though with their own girl as the porno star. ... hard to stomach though isnt it?
 
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Yeah. Wonder how they hell they manage to keep the relationship together?
 

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Damn brah.. i really feel like its becoming a problem in my life.. even with an attractive girl, i find myself getting bored with the sex very easily..

Sometimes i need to fantasise about the girl sucking another dudes kawk.. just to make myself ***.. haha

Plain old fashioned sex just does not seem to do it for me much..

It doesn't feel like surrendering power to me tho.. i like to have that kinda power over a chick, where she will do anything that i sexualy want.. sleep with another woman, or fuk another guy, or take on a couple..

I know this chit is not healthy tho.. especially in a relationship, things can go seriously wrong!!!
 

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I believe there's such a thing as "too much sex." You then begin to require much more stimulation and/or novelty to get off.

I reduced the number of times I have sex and I stopped watching porn. That pretty much took care of everything.

Most people wouldn't go this route however. We have to indulge in everything, i.e., drinking, f-cking, eating, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP this borders dangerously on Cuckold if you aren't careful.

You need to take a break from Sex, Masturbating and watching Porn.

You're bored because you're over exposed.

I had to take a break to enjoy normal sex again (I wasn't cumming during sex etc)./
 

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Two possible reasons:
  • Sadomasochism.
  • Lack of respect for the chick - She is either low quality or too easy. So, naturally, you have unconsciously degraded her to an objectified joy-toy. Or you simply don't like her.
 

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Your way of thinking has been damaged by porn, bro.
Yep, porn turns you into a passive beta male with a voyeurism fetish. A cuckold. Keep watching it and you'll get porn-induced erectile dysfunction -- look it up on Google.

Tell me:
- do you find yourself turned on more by threesomes, DPs, gangbangs or cuckold porn than regular 1-on-1 porn ?
- does the thought of a porn scene give you a hard-on faster than the thought of f*cking a super hot chick ?
- do you even get a hard-on at the thought of f*cking a super hot chick ?
- do you get hard-ons when a chick gets touchy-feely with you ?
- do you need some hardcore sh!t to get / keep a boner ?
- do you wake up with boners ?


I recommend you take a long break from porn and masturbation. 2 weeks minimum of cold turkey.
In the meantime hit the gym hard (full body workouts including squats, deadlifts and overhead presses) and eat clean foods like a pig. Don't skim on fatty foods and carbs.

You will (re)discover the feeling of being a real man and you'll find this cuckold inclination disgusting.


If you can't restrain from porn for at least 2 weeks, that's bad news. It controls you. You're addicted.
 

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Suspens said:
Two possible reasons:
  • Sadomasochism.
  • Lack of respect for the chick - She is either low quality or too easy. So, naturally, you have unconsciously degraded her to an objectified joy-toy. Or you simply don't like her.


think you hit the hammer on the nail... i usually feel this way about low quality chicks, who i do not give much of a fuk about..

if i was in love with a girl and i valvued her.. i doubt i would get her involved in this kind of behaviour..
 
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