"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this a Guilt thing?

darkraven425

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hey all,
There's this chick I know, name's rebecca, we'd talk on aim everyonce in a while, so we were friends you know, I'd always cared about her, she was like a sis to me.
about a week and a half ago... her and her parents were in a car accident,
from what I've read about it, some drunk ba*tard was driving on the free way, and just lost control and broadsided their car, slamming it into a wall; Rebecca was the only one who had her seat belt on, and both the drunk and her parents were killed.
I first heard about it from her friend, she was staying at her aunts, who incidently lived close to me, I got the number from her friend and called. she was cold, like scary cold. she had this monotone voice that masked such pain I almost couldn't take it.
I asked her if I could go up there, and talk, there an almost 60 second pause, then she "please."
I drove to her aunts and knocked, her aunt had a nurses convention and was gone for the weekend.
she opened the door, and she looked just hopeless. I held her for a while, she was so scared.
I dunno really, we just kinda moved to the couch and she fell asleep in my arms, and I was content just to comfort her. I guess in a nutshell I realized like this girl, but she's been through so much, and I'd hate to take advantage of something like that.
I don't know
what should I do?
-Raven
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lost In the Seas

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will u take advantage of ur sis? dude ur twisted, i wouldn't even take advantage if it's jessica alba crying in my arms like that
 

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naw it's not like that, I've just kinda realized I care about her more than I thought, I'm just wondering wether I should ever date her, or just stay friends. I'm kinda aiming for just staying friends, for at least a year or so, until she's a little more stable, and maybe then.
I wasn't talking about taking advantage of her, that would be just wrong
 

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have you ever seen the movie the Butterfly Effect?

...just be careful man... i wouldn't take advantage of her. just be a friend.
 
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