Is this a good neg hit?

[jebach123]

So if a girl has a piercing on her nose you say "Such a small piercing for a that big nose" something in that style

came up with that about one girl but kind of afraid to use some ****y funny lines what if she really gets offended

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Too on the nose

 

[CMNILS87]

dude no....thats just wrong.

Neg: Hmm, where you get that crazy piercing?........(answer)........ No way my grandma has one just like that. reliving her youth i guess

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

So if a girl has a piercing on her nose you say "Such a small piercing for a that big nose" something in that style

came up with that about one girl but kind of afraid to use some ****y funny lines what if she really gets offended

Try "nice nose, it's really big" but say it sincerely like you actually do like big noses or something (as weord as that sounds). I personally don't but that's just me, maybe you do lol. Then just start talking about how you noticed it because of her piercing and start talking about that and then just drift the topic from there into whatever you want to talk about.

Don't say what you were originally thinking of though because that's just an insult, not a neg. A neg is essentially complimenting and insulting at the same time.

 

[bigneil]

The other day a super hot bartender looked like she forgot something, and I said "Excuse me. Your brain may have misfired, but your body... looks great".

 

[ubercat]

I m with Espi on this one. However it may work on hot young girls. I d save it for the ones that r giving u attitude. Nothing to lose at that point.

 

[CMNILS87]

I m with Espi on this one. However it may work on hot young girls. I d save it for the ones that r giving u attitude. Nothing to lose at that point.

It's still not a great idea. Even a chick with attitude can be dealt with by sexualizing a tease.

Me: "Wow....someone's sassy today I see".
Her: "Yea, so what?"
Me: "Sassy girls get spanked"

Literally gut reaction response. I thought oh **** afterwards, probably shouldn't have said that, yet she thrn states she likes spankings and her punishment should be harsher.

Don't neg hit, Be Deapool. Overtly sexual, no ****s given

 

[Atom Smasher]

In general, NEVER neg a woman on body features. That is the equivalent of a woman making fun of your p3nis. Only the most beautiful, gorgeous women, who are displaying a bitchy, superior attitude can handle a physical neg.

A neg should address character issues and choices (choice of clothing, for example). Saying something about a woman's physical attributes that she was born with is wounding her deeply and she'll never forget it.

Many greenhorns have no idea under the sun when and how to use a neg. OP, do you know when to use a neg and why?

The plainer and more average a girl is, the less she can handle a neg without being deeply hurt. You don't want to deeply hurt them (except in rare circumstances which I'll explain below). You want to SUBTELY bring doubt about herself into her mind. You don't do it off-the-cuff, just because you think you're "supposed to". Rather, you do it for very specific reasons, and only when necessary.

Remember, a good rule of thumb is that a neg should have two possible meanings. You are making a comment about something about her, and she is unsure whether you mean the worst possible interpretation or not. It destabilizes her, shakes the ground upon which she normally walks.

If you find yourself considering making a blunt statement about her physical attributes, you're not in neg territory. You're in mis-calibrated insult territory, and she will perceive it as such, and rightly so.

The only exception that I can think of is if some arrogant b!tch starts in with you (whom you are not attracted to and have no intention of dating). Telling her in a detached way that she should spend less time worrying about you and more time on the treadmill is fair in those situation IMO.

 

[devilkingx2]

negs are playing with fire, don't ever use them

 

[Who Dares Win]

It's still not a great idea. Even a chick with attitude can be dealt with by sexualizing a tease.

Me: "Wow....someone's sassy today I see".
Her: "Yea, so what?"
Me: "Sassy girls get spanked"

Literally gut reaction response. I thought oh **** afterwards, probably shouldn't have said that, yet she thrn states she likes spankings and her punishment should be harsher.

Don't neg hit, Be Deapool. Overtly sexual, no ****s given

I understand what you mean and generally I agree under most condition however if you are dealing with a cvnt you are serving her an assist.

You tell her that "sassy girls get spanked" she can reply with "maybe from real men so Im safe around you" or a simply commonly used "in your dreams maybe".

After that no matter what you say you will come up as the butthurt one.

When it comes of out of places, unpolite, miscalibrated replies from women always prepare for the worst.

 

[Atom Smasher]

A good rule of thumb is that a "neg. hit" should always focus on a woman's most attractive trait and/or feature; whatever it is about her that most men make submissive fools out of themselves over. The point is to establish the fact that that you're not rattled by her charm. It leads a woman to presume you've been there before (with other beautiful women) and that you expect a little more than that.

Good to see you back.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Here's an example of a good neg, although a mild one. When I'm with my gf, who is gorgeous, I sometimes say, "Even though I'm the cute one in the relationship, you have a lot going for you, so don't sell yourself short".

She loves that as it underscores what I've said to her before, that it's EASY to get a beautiful girlfriend; They're a dime a dozen. But finding one with character, now that's the trick.

She knows that her looks is definitely not what is holding me in the relationship.

 

[Trump]

There are no hard and fast rules with negs. You can say what you want, as long as you are not constantly negging her; who wants to be around someone who puts them down slightly all the time? Or insulting her.

To say "never use them" is over-reaching. To constantly use them is even worse. You should go with the flow to be the best person you, and her, can be. If she's gaining weight, tell her. If she's not looking presentable, tell her. If she's putting on too much makeup, tell her. You can say all this in a positive way that will make her see the light and still be in love with you.

 

[devilkingx2]

There are no hard and fast rules with negs. You can say what you want, as long as you are not constantly negging her; who wants to be around someone who puts them down slightly all the time? Or insulting her.

To say "never use them" is over-reaching. To constantly use them is even worse. You should go with the flow to be the best person you, and her, can be. If she's gaining weight, tell her. If she's not looking presentable, tell her. If she's putting on too much makeup, tell her. You can say all this in a positive way that will make her see the light and still be in love with you.

negs remind me of a video i saw relating to a very popular online game, the person in the video was saying that people who aren't so good at the game should avoid playing characters that are complex and hard to use because there are usually easier and more idiot proof ways to get the same thing done, i think negs are pretty much the same way

it's so easy to botch a neg and so hard to use them right that you're better off not using them at all (that's why every depiction of negs in popular culture has the guy trying to use them get ****ed over because he uses them badly)