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is this a good IOI?

Deadly_Assassin

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Okay, I know there are rules about flowers and poems. But I thought "hey, rules are meant to be broken...". My target has been giving me lots of compliments, touchy-touchy, gave me her home number not so long ago, saying if I ever wanted to chat, bla bla bla ( about3 weeks ago, but I havent rung her yet). So, I thought I would try something. I didn't plan it, but the opportunity was there, therefore I gave it a try. We were just fixing this room up at church and I saw a flower there in a vase. I picked it up and went straight to my target and just put it in her hair. She turned around and said thanx with a smile on her face and wore it for the rest of the night. She also kept staring at me from time to time during the dinner.

Now I talked to this about with my other chick mate. I told her, that if she wore the flower for the rest of the night in her hair, and this was during a church function, this must me a good sign, right? But my mate thinks its not conclusive evidence. She says that my target might have kept the flower in her hair because it looked good on her.

What do you guys think?

I asked her about her past relationships and what her stand is now on it. The target just said shes not really looking for one. Therefore I am not too keen on asking her out ( my interest is kinda dropping as well )
 

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Deadly_Assassin said:
Okay, I know there are rules about flowers and poems. But I thought "hey, rules are meant to be broken...". My target has been giving me lots of compliments, touchy-touchy, gave me her home number not so long ago, saying if I ever wanted to chat, bla bla bla ( about3 weeks ago, but I havent rung her yet). So, I thought I would try something. I didn't plan it, but the opportunity was there, therefore I gave it a try. We were just fixing this room up at church and I saw a flower there in a vase. I picked it up and went straight to my target and just put it in her hair. She turned around and said thanx with a smile on her face and wore it for the rest of the night. She also kept staring at me from time to time during the dinner.

Now I talked to this about with my other chick mate. I told her, that if she wore the flower for the rest of the night in her hair, and this was during a church function, this must me a good sign, right? But my mate thinks its not conclusive evidence. She says that my target might have kept the flower in her hair because it looked good on her.

What do you guys think?

I asked her about her past relationships and what her stand is now on it. The target just said shes not really looking for one. Therefore I am not too keen on asking her out ( my interest is kinda dropping as well )

Flower in her hair, home number.

What are you waiting for?
Why not ring her and ask her out already, you leave this too late and she will get bored move on or find the jerk who does have the balls to ask her out.

Stop trying to set up things to percive her interest just go upto her and sort out a proper date.

All this other stuff is meaningless!

At least if she blows you in you know where you stand and you can then stop wasting your time on engineering stuff like this.

He who hesistates, masterbates remember that!

The girl is waiting and your masterbating.
 

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She gave you her phone number.. Don't play with these IOI..
Just ask her out for a date, to test her IOI!..

Only when you're 100% sure that she isn't attracted to you, then let her go.

Remember, when the girl is attracted to you there is almost nothing that you can do wrong. And when the girl is Not Attracted to you, there's almost nothing that you can do right.
 

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Im affraid the above is right Deadly......

If you leave this.....one of 2 things will happen. She will lose intrest....or you will stray into the LJBF area.

I think you should make a move on your "target" asap. The IOIs you are getting sound strong.

Your asking her if she wants to go out sometime.....Not like your proposing
 
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