Is this a good idea?

[Maximummax]

Hey folks
I spoke to this banker like 5-10 times(she is >30) over the phone and thru emails. She seems single. I sent her an email on how she is doing, when i went to the bank she was busy and couldn't talk to me. she replied saying " it was nice to receive your email i was super busy that day( she didn't see me i saw her), Hope you are doing well and have a great week.

I was thinking of asking her to lunch thru email, good idea?
how do i put that folks
Just wanted to make her my plate.

 

[VladPatton]

This is a hard one. She is in a very corporate, financial environment and you're the customer. Fück it, send the email and see what happens. In person she may just smile and dismiss you by saying, "Thank you, come again, have a great day!" and walk away from you. If she's interested, she'll email you from a private account and you can exchange numbers like that.
It's a massive stab in the dark and you're blindfolded with one arm tied behind your back on this one! Do it anyway, you'll kick yourself if you didn't.

PS: DO NOT make the email long and cheesy! Be short and articulate.

 

[Maximummax]

this is what i got folks,

Hi XXXXX,

It was nice to receive your email… sorry I missed you when you came in on Saturday.. we were super busy then.. my head was spinning.@@
I am finally getting to respond to all my emails… and then I will be headed home.
Hope you are doing well. And wish you a safe and wonderful evening!!

 

[Maximummax]

My email to her

Hi XXXX
How are you, it’s been a while I spoke to you .
I stopped by the bank last Saturday to check my safe deposit box, I noticed you were busy with customers.
Hope you are having a great day.
Thanks
XXXX

i exchanged few emails before, this was my email and she replied the email which i posted above

 

[VladPatton]

Holy fück, man, that looks like 2 bots exchanging emails! That email got you nowhere. No digits, no rapport, totally pointless.

http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enh...2/anigif_enhanced-buzz-24347-1360639817-1.gif

 

[Maximummax]

Holy fück, man, that looks like 2 bots exchanging emails! That email got you nowhere. No digits, no rapport, totally pointless.

http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enh...2/anigif_enhanced-buzz-24347-1360639817-1.gif

thanks for insight
any tips to be more flirty on emails

 

[VladPatton]

Email her this, since you're doin this back and forth email thing now:


I know what you mean! Some days are just super crazy, and today is no better. Would you like to grab a drink after work on XXXXday? My cell number is: (123)456-7890.

Talk soon,
Maximummax


That's it. It's a callback to the whole stressful day she mentioned, and you ask her to a drink at the end of it, like a relief from it. Send this off and see what happens. If she sends back another stiff, overly polite email ignoring the drink, then it's done, she's not interested.

Never bring it up and don't act weird next time you see her at the bank, act as if nothing happened. No biggie, you asked a cute chick out for drinks and she declined.