"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this A good idea?

zack77766

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I dont have a girl's number yet but we're facebook friends. She doesnt really respond to anyone's messaging but I want to invite her to my football game. So itll be like Hey. You want to come to my football game.... Sound good? She kinda does like me...........
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alkali

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Sounds fine lol. Try not to worry too much.

I'm serious. That will screw you up later.
 

BCOMusic

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sounds like you are already putting her above you in your own mind.

she isn't above you

she isn't better than you
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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With that attitude you probably won't get her.
Confidence is at the root, so talk to her a little at school, then close by inviting her to your game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Leporello

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Are you going to see her anytime soon? Asking in person is better than any other way...

I will admit to occasionally checking out people's Facebook profiles to see what events they've got lined up as a way to run into them.
 
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