"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Is this a good conclusion

BabyFaceComplex

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2012
Messages
48
Reaction score
0
If 5s approach you, you are a 6 and should approach 7s??

If you have x/10 girls aproach you, whats the disparity with the girls you date??

(sorry I am a looks theorist)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,423
Reaction score
5,795
it depends on the situation.

If you are in a club full of men with very few women and a 5 approach you, it means that you are at least a 7 and she considers you attractive despite the setting.

If you are at the beach surrounded by good looking girls with few guys and a 5 approaches you it means you are 5 or less since she considers you to be available to her despite herself being at the bottom of the barrel in that particular setting.

We are humans influences from environmental factors, we cannot consider ourselves as atoms which behave the same regardless of whats going on around.

This is actually the main reason why a fat girl in the us has weight (in the sexual market I mean,not regarding gravity) while that same girl would be a outcaste in eastern europe.

Regarding your question, what you aim for is not necessarily connected to your value, as said you could be a 7 in new york and consider yourself lucky if you get a 6 while you could be a 7 in moscow and ignoring
7s around you to get 8s and above,also what you are depends of those around you.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2010
Messages
452
Reaction score
15
Location
City of Angels
No. Every 7 out there has a different opinion on herself. Some 7s think they are 4s and other 7s think they are 10s. Unless everyone walks around with the number 1-10 tattooed on their forehead there are too many moving pieces to fit in a box.
 

PapiChulo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
1,283
Reaction score
61
Location
Canada, eh?
It doesn't matter. Bottom line is that they find you attractive or acceptable. Women who are 7 and up are very roofless with looks and will only approach hot guys, whereas average women and lower will go for a dude that's at least cute and doesn't look like a jerk. The worse thing is that cute guys that have no particular "edge" to speak of will get hit on them left and right by fatties and uglies. Somehow the woman's hamster brain sees a guy that is several points more attractive than them as "attainable". Acceptable guy=attainable guy. Delusion, perhaps? Or they know the game is rigged? Don't get surprised when a hot friend of yours will try to set you up am with her fat friend.
 
Top