"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is This A Good Approach

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HEY
DID WE GO TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL TOGETHER
BLA BLA
HEY CAN I ASK U A QUESTION, ARE U SINGLE
HER:YES
OK WELL HOW ABOUT U GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER AND WE GO OUT SOMETIME.

THIS CONVO WOULD ONLY LAST 30s TO A MINUTE IS THIS LONG ENOUGH FOR HER TO GIVE HER NUMBER CAUSE WE WILL SITLL BE LIKE STRANGETRS WHEN WE GET TOGEHTER FOR THE DATE.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No, its actually terrible. really.

You need to ask her more questions, if you want to get her number. She also has to trust you- after only 2 questions she wont trust you.

Just walk up to her, say HI, im Agressor. Make some comments about your surroundings, ask her where she lives, etc....

I wouldnt ask her if shes single right off the bat- it puts her in a 'defensive mode.
 
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SEARCH PUGLSLEY'S Approach JOURNAL



he did that EXACT same approach over over again. A lot of rejections but the success outweighed it.
 
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ok, i know puglsey did it.

but If he used a better approach, and built more rapport with each girl- his success would be a lot higher.
 
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Originally posted by Layla
No, its actually terrible. really.

You need to ask her more questions, if you want to get her number. She also has to trust you- after only 2 questions she wont trust you.

Just walk up to her, say HI, im Agressor. Make some comments about your surroundings, ask her where she lives, etc....

I wouldnt ask her if shes single right off the bat- it puts her in a 'defensive mode.
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you cant have success going up like a FAGGOT and saying, HI IM AGRESSOR, THAT IS SO GAY HAHAHAHHAHA
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why don't you try it out and get back to us!!!

I think you have a credible chance of success - albeit small.
Originally posted by Layla
No, its actually terrible. really.
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You won't have much success listening to a chick give you advice on pickups which she only thinks will work.

Girls will fall for a routine.... and when they become aware they have fallen for a routine, that routine will never work on them again and hence they will say that routine sucks when in actual fact, said routine did #close her once and will #close other chicks...
 
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Originally posted by Agressor
HEY
DID WE GO TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL TOGETHER
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Um...no, I don't think so. turns around

UHH...UMMM....OKAY
walk away
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Stop saying "hey"...you've either got her attention or you don't. And you don't need an "excuse" to talk to a woman. ;)
 
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Re: Re: Is This A Good Approach

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Stop saying "hey"...you've either got her attention or you don't. And you don't need an "excuse" to talk to a woman. ;)
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what are u talking about
 
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