"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is This A Good Approach

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HEY
DID WE GO TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL TOGETHER
BLA BLA
HEY CAN I ASK U A QUESTION, ARE U SINGLE
HER:YES
OK WELL HOW ABOUT U GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER AND WE GO OUT SOMETIME.

THIS CONVO WOULD ONLY LAST 30s TO A MINUTE IS THIS LONG ENOUGH FOR HER TO GIVE HER NUMBER CAUSE WE WILL SITLL BE LIKE STRANGETRS WHEN WE GET TOGEHTER FOR THE DATE.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No, its actually terrible. really.

You need to ask her more questions, if you want to get her number. She also has to trust you- after only 2 questions she wont trust you.

Just walk up to her, say HI, im Agressor. Make some comments about your surroundings, ask her where she lives, etc....

I wouldnt ask her if shes single right off the bat- it puts her in a 'defensive mode.
 

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SEARCH PUGLSLEY'S Approach JOURNAL



he did that EXACT same approach over over again. A lot of rejections but the success outweighed it.
 

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ok, i know puglsey did it.

but If he used a better approach, and built more rapport with each girl- his success would be a lot higher.
 

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Originally posted by Layla
No, its actually terrible. really.

You need to ask her more questions, if you want to get her number. She also has to trust you- after only 2 questions she wont trust you.

Just walk up to her, say HI, im Agressor. Make some comments about your surroundings, ask her where she lives, etc....

I wouldnt ask her if shes single right off the bat- it puts her in a 'defensive mode.
you cant have success going up like a FAGGOT and saying, HI IM AGRESSOR, THAT IS SO GAY HAHAHAHHAHA
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why don't you try it out and get back to us!!!

I think you have a credible chance of success - albeit small.
Originally posted by Layla
No, its actually terrible. really.
You won't have much success listening to a chick give you advice on pickups which she only thinks will work.

Girls will fall for a routine.... and when they become aware they have fallen for a routine, that routine will never work on them again and hence they will say that routine sucks when in actual fact, said routine did #close her once and will #close other chicks...
 

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Originally posted by Agressor
HEY
DID WE GO TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOL TOGETHER
Um...no, I don't think so. turns around

UHH...UMMM....OKAY
walk away
Stop saying "hey"...you've either got her attention or you don't. And you don't need an "excuse" to talk to a woman. ;)
 

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Re: Re: Is This A Good Approach

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Stop saying "hey"...you've either got her attention or you don't. And you don't need an "excuse" to talk to a woman. ;)
what are u talking about
 
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