"Is this a date?"

[Dali_tx_o]

Hello gentlemen,

I've recently got this question again, and I noticed it happens quite a lot during first dates, often in first/second quarter of the time spent with girl. I'm starting to wonder if there is a better way to handle such situation.

My usual ones, so far, have been:

"Well, that depends on you"
(If there was some sort of a mention that we will be going on a date)

"We'll see"

"Depends" *pause, change topic*

*Look straight into her eyes, smirk, then continue eying whatever you were before, be it a menu, a game etc.*

What's your take?

 

[Desdinova]

It sounds like you're not showing that you're interested in her sexually. Use more kino.

I personally have never had a woman ask me this question.

 

[VladPatton]

You look her straight in the face and say "yes, yes it IS a date" without any question. Make your intention to go out with her romantically known. If she has a problem with it, she can say no and walk away.

Nice guys finish last, and puṣṣies don't even make the team.

 

[old_skoolr]

my response "yes it is, and thats minus 5 points for asking that"