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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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DJnoob

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Women tricking ("tricking" not playing " playing games ") you to believing that they REALLY likes you up to the point where the two of you would exchange numbers and then when you call her. POOF nothing happens.. She probably just wants to see what actions you might take so she can tell her girl friends what a desperate chump you are?

So, to people here who have alot of experience with women:
Does such thing exist from your experience with women?


This is a clarification from a previous thread i created
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJnoob said:
Women tricking ("tricking" not playing " playing games ") you to believing that they REALLY likes you up to the point where the two of you would exchange numbers and then when you call her. POOF nothing happens.. She probably just wants to see what actions you might take so she can tell her girl friends what a desperate chump you are?
This could be a possibility, but it should be incidently. It also depends on wheather or not you've known this girl since you were a 'chump'. She might have noticed the change in you and would want to prove to her friends you still are a chump. If it happens to you with girls you just met, I think there might be another problem. You should clarify to us what exactly happens. Are you pushing her for her number? Why do you believe she REALLY likes you? When you call her, she doesn't pick up or she does but the 'click' is gone?
 

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you may be right there. no, you are right. what im trying to say is that you should just go on ahead as if nothing happened. thats the next time you meet anyway. let her take the initiative next time. so youll know if she really is interested or not. but watch out a bit cuz you know that she might just be playing again.

then again, you should expound more with the "nothing happens" part. did you call, and her not picking the phone up? or was she just unavailable despite asking her a year in advance for the date? specify more.
 

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She met me when not as a fat AFC but as someone who looks like whos been around.

She's not really all that great looking face, nice petite body but she also has personality or maybe because im just really desperate now for pvssy.

Well, she's from work and before whenever she would see me, she would say something like "call me". So, one day, I finally responded to her "call me" line by saying "I don't have your number"

I didn't have a pen at the moment and so, I told her to get a pen to write it down for me which she did.

So, I call her, voice mail answers. She calls back 20 minutes later saying her phone died. I believed her cuz her phone didnt ring when I called.

Next day, she calls me and tells me we should hang out that day.
i said "ok, illcall you later tonight if anything happens"

Later that night, I call her but told her that I wasn't going to make it.

2 days later, she brings in her really cute friend and they both come up to me. She pretends she's looking for her other female coworker but she prolly was showing me off to her friend (my assumption)

So, you guys still haven't answered my question. Have you ever been tricked or played on by a woman just for the fun of it?
 

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DJnoob said:
So, you guys still haven't answered my question. Have you ever been tricked or played on by a woman just for the fun of it?
It doesn't matter man. I'm sure there is some guy in this world that has been tricked or played by a woman just for the heck of it. It really isn't that hard to imagine.

Don't fear it happening to you. Just experience it. Enjoy the experience. Take it as something new. Plus it's so much better than not having a girl there to date. If you're not being tricked and played by some girl, what would you be doing? Would it be something you can talk about? Would it be something interesting? Would it involve some other girl that won't trick or play you? Just bask in the experience, whatever it is. You'll be a better man guaranteed. Though, you've got to bask, not complain about it.
 

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you can only get tricked of played by a woman if you let her do it to you!! YES alot of woman do play/trick men. dont care why but they do. do a search on frame controll. learning about that should eliminate woman trying to play you and consiquently increasing there IL level and playing themselves.
 

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i can say ive been tricked before. its all part of who i am now. three guesses who plays the tricks now.
 
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