TheUnforgiven
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I apologize for this being so long. When I was 18 I joined the Navy and in basic training I was the biggest pu$$y they'd ever seen. This company commander asked me if I've ever: had a girlfriend? No sir. Had a job? No sir. Played any sports in school? No sir. Have a car? No sir. Have a driver's license? No sir. Are you a virgin? Yes sir. "Well you're just a waste, aren't you?" Maybe a week, week and a half into basic training I tried to cut my wrists and that same guy told me I couldn't even do that right, needless to say I got discharged.
I'm in my 40's, been on a handful of dates. Had one relationship that lasted a few months. Women have shown interest in me in the past, but I have such low self-esteem that I figure they'll just lose interest in me once they figure out what a loser I am. I graduated high school, never went to college. I work in a data entry job because it's not demanding and I have a very low threshold for pressure and panic easily. I've never had sex because I have a foot fetish and that's really all I desire to do with a woman. Even the one girlfriend I had that's all I wanted to do was play with her feet. I want to get off after I play with a woman's feet (usually a stripper), but I have little interest in intercourse so I'd rather just go home and jerk off. I have no friends, just people I shoot the $hit with at work. They say they consider me a friend but, if we don't hang out outside of work does that count as a friend?
I know that by society's standard I'm a pathetic loser and should just give up and die, no one has to tell me that. I guess my question is, does that mean I am a loser who should just give up and die? It would be different if knowing what society would think of me made me angry and motivated me, but it just does the opposite. It depresses me and makes me want to give up. I know the answer already: if thinking you're a loser doesn't serve (motivate) you, then don't think you're a loser. I guess I'm just looking for some reassurance?
And yeah, I know I'm opening myself up to be made fun of in every way under the sun. I get that. But if I get something out of the more positive responses (assuming there are any), it might be worth it. Thanks.
I'm in my 40's, been on a handful of dates. Had one relationship that lasted a few months. Women have shown interest in me in the past, but I have such low self-esteem that I figure they'll just lose interest in me once they figure out what a loser I am. I graduated high school, never went to college. I work in a data entry job because it's not demanding and I have a very low threshold for pressure and panic easily. I've never had sex because I have a foot fetish and that's really all I desire to do with a woman. Even the one girlfriend I had that's all I wanted to do was play with her feet. I want to get off after I play with a woman's feet (usually a stripper), but I have little interest in intercourse so I'd rather just go home and jerk off. I have no friends, just people I shoot the $hit with at work. They say they consider me a friend but, if we don't hang out outside of work does that count as a friend?
I know that by society's standard I'm a pathetic loser and should just give up and die, no one has to tell me that. I guess my question is, does that mean I am a loser who should just give up and die? It would be different if knowing what society would think of me made me angry and motivated me, but it just does the opposite. It depresses me and makes me want to give up. I know the answer already: if thinking you're a loser doesn't serve (motivate) you, then don't think you're a loser. I guess I'm just looking for some reassurance?
And yeah, I know I'm opening myself up to be made fun of in every way under the sun. I get that. But if I get something out of the more positive responses (assuming there are any), it might be worth it. Thanks.