"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is there still hope?

Hope

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Hi, i'm 17 and I never had a gf (well once in middle school, but it was just 3 days) i've never kissed someone and this is my last year of high school
so my question is, is there still a chance I can correct my life :( ? i mean most of my cousins have gf's already and bring them to family meetings and idk feels bad :cry:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zapp Brannigan

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Of course you still have a chance. There's one thing you need to realize, you don't have to have a girl to complete your life. Part of being a DJ is living life to the fullest, and letting the women come second.

At 17 I was worried of the same things, until realizing that women aren't everything. You have your entire life ahead of you, don't feel like you have to have a serious relationship right now just because your cousins do. Everyone has their own path, and you'll get with a good girl eventually.

Just have fun, and don't worry.
 

MtnMan

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Dude, nothing to fret about. I didn't even kiss a girl until I was 18 and in college. I felt horrible about it, but its just funny now looking back on it.
 

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Look at mystery, I seem to remember he said he was a virgin up till his early 20s. Also realise that just because your friends get laid, does not mean they have game. i got laid at 15, however i had severe oneitis and the matrix had gripped me so firmly that during sex i was ****e, i was afraid to be dominant and i wud go down on her for aaaages beforehand cus i had been conditioned to put her pleasure first. When we eventually broke up 8 months later, it broke my ego, fortunately that was when i discovered game.
That was a bit of a tangent, the message is that dont be jealous if your friends have gf's, they will be left broken and u will ultimately come out the winner. However, u will have 1 or 2 friends that may be natural alphas, silently take notes of how they interact with women and other guys.
 
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