Is there really any advice out there for minorities who want to date White girls?

[Ambitious Player]

Sorry for this race thread but I want to report a trend I have observed on PUA forums.

Whenever a White guy asks for advice on dating non-White girls, people give him good advice and tell him he can do it.

Whenever a minority especially Asian asks for advice on dating White women, people often say something along the lines of:

1. What is wrong with Asian girls? Stick with them
2. Why not branch out? Why do you want White women so bad?

I have noticed that with Black men people will give them some sort of advice but for other races it is simply more of the above, trying to talk them out of dating White women.

Like you have so much advice for White men who want to date Asian men and Latinas. You don't have any piece of advice out there say for an Indian guy who wants to score with a Blonde.

So this makes me ask the question, do minorities have to basically pave their own way and rely less on pickup, manosphere, and those kinds of places for advice?

Also I am not Indian like the guy claimed, I am an American of Korean/Lebanaese heritage. Don't have the Asian eyes but I do have the yellow Asian skin, black hair, and the brown eyes.

 

[deedel]

many men want what is different/exotic for them. blondes are nothing much for us. I personally think that you are nuts to want one.

 

[Burroughs]

*alert* Indian Race Troll

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3k3dvDlBQPQ

 

[BeDJ]

I'm un-white and can give a couple pointers. Follow the rule of being attractive, and the second most important rule: don't be unattractive.

 

[foreverAFC]

*alert* Indian Race Troll

at this point i dont think the guy is a troll, i think he has real deep rooted psychological issues about his race

 

[Bokanovsky]

Is there really any advice out there for minorities who want to date White girls?

Yes. Book an appointment with Michael Jackson's doctor and stop being a minority.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Listen with all honesty possible, girls are the most racist creature in this world.

They sample men by size, status, wallet weight and most of all race and appearance...white women, especially the blonde ones that minorities like so much dont want anything to do with them unless something great is involved.

Fame, a sh1t load of money or anything else that would make their appearance less important, its not about game despite what people say so the best suggestion would be to increase your value or better yet skyrocket your value.

And dont complain about them being racist when you're the first racist is you toward your own kind, how can you expect X to not give lower priority to Y when Y itself gives lower priority to Y.

Not to bash you OP I like white women only myself as a rule, cant really see myself with an indian or an asian girl let alone a ltr with any.

 

[Bokanovsky]

And dont complain about them being racist when you're the first racist is you toward your own kind, how can you expect X to not give lower priority to Y when Y itself gives lower priority to Y.

It's all rather paradoxical, isn't it? Indians, arabs, blacks, etc. all chase after the white pvssy because they think that it's superior to ethnic pvssy. And then they act surprised when they find out that women think that white c0ck is superior to ethnic c0ck.

 

[Who Dares Win]

It's all rather paradoxical, isn't it? Indians, arabs, blacks, etc. all chase after the white pvssy because they think that it's superior to ethnic pvssy. And then they act surprised when they find out that women think that white c0ck is superior to ethnic c0ck.

Agree on that, it reminds me fat girls who ignore and avoid fat guys only to complain that the guy with the 6pack doesnt want anything to deal with them.

Then you can hear them "guys are so superficial, they should appreciate inside beauty"..

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't think there are SPECIFIC special game techniques for an Indian male to pick up blonde white women. Game is game.

Read what BeginningDJ said. Focus on trying to optimize/maximize your looks. Yes race matters, but looks matter more.

 

[Ambitious Player]

well you also have to sympathize in a way with minorities too, like asian guys for example

1. most of the women they are around are white

2. most of their own women (Asian women do this a lot) sell them short and try their best to act White


SO in a way, if these guys want to have success with women, White women are their main goals because that is all they are around. Now don't get me wrong, if you are in New Mexico where most girls are Latinas or in Los Angeles where there is diversity you can blame it on the guy. Yet if you are in the midwest or some southern states, you have to pretty much be open to dating White women since they are the main ones you run into.

You guys see what I am getting at?

I mean gimme a Brazilian girl ANYDAY but I am not going to dig through in a crowd of pretty White female faces to find that Brazilian girl, that is limiting my options.

 

[Bokanovsky]

well you also have to sympathize in a way with minorities too, like asian guys for example

1. most of the women they are around are white

Why??

 

[PlayHer Man]

If you're an attractive or high status man, your race won't matter much (if at all).

Women mostly see race as a measure of status with all things being equal. Status doesn't make a woman's vagina tingle.. it just brings out her pretentious desire to show off and impress others. Never forget that.

It also depends what woman's goals are. To be f*ckable you just have to be attractive. You race doesn't matter at all. To be marriage material you have to be "socially acceptable" and "high status" depending on that woman's goals in life.

Also some women have an obsession with the culture of a certain race. Like some white girls are obsessed with black culture or Hispanic culture. Any culture they view as "exciting" or "fun" can pull them in. THIS IS WHY black guys and Hispanic guys generally pull white girls easier than Asian and Indian guys.

If she wants to live the "fabulous" high class life, she will usually seek a white man or an Asian / Indian with money. But what good is pulling a white girl who is looking for a beta faggot provider?

You want to be f*ckable above all things. Forget who women want "relationships" with. In 2013 marriage is a joke and relationships just keep you from f*cking other women. Shoot for FWB at best unless you want kids.

If you're ugly... you have to play the money / status angle in such a way that you get her to f*ck you in hopes of getting a commitment later (and your money with it ). Or you can play the bad boy angle in some cases.

CONCLUSION: Race is only one of many factors. It matters, but not as much as attractiveness, status, money, etc.

 

[BeDJ]

I am asian and the majority of the women I have dated and fvcked in the past year were white. An overwhelming majority at that.

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what race you are. Just as if your d!ck was wet, you wouldn't care either.

People who use race as an excuse for being unsuccessful have the defeatist mindset that makes them unattractive. It's pathetic.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I hardly ever see white guys on here asking for advice on dating non-white girls.

I usually say race-trolls such as yourself asking how to land white chicks. Everybody wants to land white girls. That is the most common race thread on this forum, hands down.

In all fairness.. if you live in the U.S. or Europe.. the majority of women you meet will be WHITE. So not being able to game them takes away 70% of your dating pool.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Listen with all honesty possible, girls are the most racist creature in this world.

They sample men by size, status, wallet weight and most of all race and appearance...white women, especially the blonde ones that minorities like so much dont want anything to do with them unless something great is involved.

Fame, a sh1t load of money or anything else that would make their appearance less important, its not about game despite what people say so the best suggestion would be to increase your value or better yet skyrocket your value.

And dont complain about them being racist when you're the first racist is you toward your own kind, how can you expect X to not give lower priority to Y when Y itself gives lower priority to Y.

Not to bash you OP I like white women only myself as a rule, cant really see myself with an indian or an asian girl let alone a ltr with any.

Actually a really insightful post. It's not so easy to be a minority, there are preselection issues.

But he claims fame or status symbols are needed to show value. Instead, build value through intelligence, physical prowess, and charisma. These intangible values are subjective and work on different scales, but are much more important than money or fame.

With confidence in your ability in all walks of life will come attractiveness. After that, you become humble, and make your goal to love the woman, instead of proving to her that you are valuable.

In short, find skills and create your perfect persona. Next, put that all aside and talk to the girl with humility.

By then you will stop worrying about race.

 

[Vidrio]

Treat all girls the same regardless of race. If a girl doesn't like you because of your race, there isn't anything you can do to change her mind. Stop worrying about sh!t you have no control over.

 

[floydb25]

at this point i dont think the guy is a troll, i think he has real deep rooted psychological issues about his race

Agreed... I can't believe he's STILL going on about this. Reminds me of a few other obsessive lunatics who came and went. Only, this guy never leaves.

What's sad is, he doesn't even try to hide it, and can't pretend to lie for **** when he does.

Maybe he has a point, but what does posting about it over and over accomplish? He's a decent looking guy who wants to date hot blonde models - then blames his race when it doesn't happen. Just like all the guys who are supposedly too nice.

I don't do this, because it was never an issue... I'm a minority, too, and received quite the backlash from guys over it... especially with all the stuff happening in the middle east. But *****es don't care, because all they really care about initially is looks. If "hot blondes" or other "hot white girls" aren't approaching, reciprocating, becoming infatuated, and even going as far as rejecting and avoiding you - then you aren't very attractive. End of story.

But it's not all white girls that are rejecting him - just the hot ones. Because he had some pics of him and some reasonably attractive white girls. Which means his whole theory is ****.

And being naturally tanned / brown is a huge advantage... if you're attractive enough. Chicks go crazy for that ****, and it looks awesome. I can never wait for the summer, and hate being more on the whiter side in the off-season. Chicks even ask if my whole body is tanned, and all these things. They aren't repelled at all; don't look away or avoid me; no racial slurs were EVER given by women. Nor do they lose interest because of race. There's definitely no trying to be "whiter" going on... quite the opposite. Try to get as dark as possible - when the weather allows it.

If women find you attractive, they will look, flirt, smile, like being around you, laugh at your dumb jokes, invite you to this and that, etc. It doesn't matter what race you OR they are. An average "white" guy doesn't get ****, either.

 

[-Gripz-]

I like potatoes

 

[SirFratserlot]

Yall asians have it easier if yall are attractive. White girls that wouldnt get with black or hispanic guys(99% of them) will give asian guys a chance because theyre a model minority.