The Duke
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2 of the girls were HB8's, 2 of them were HB7's. I dated one of them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is there really a fun attractive social world and crowd after college?
- Thread starter drakeisfire
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
A man right out of college in his early 20 needs to focus like a laser on his career. What ever it is that you decide to do... FOCUS on that. I've seen and known men that after college never fvcking grow up, they continue to party and drink and they get out of shape and start looking pathetic. Put that testosterone to good use. You really shouldn't be wasting time chasing chicks your age because the women worth a fvck are going after dudes that are more established in their 30s and 40s.
Keep approaching and making dates, but do not do this at the expense of your career. When you hit your late 20s, then join not for profit groups on issues you care about, they usually have great fundraising parties and events, this is where I meet most of he women in their 20s that I go out with... start going to local chamber of commerce networking events, this is where I meet most of the quality chicks I date in their 30s and 40s.
The worst thing a man can do after he graduates from college is move back in with his parents. I would move far away from friends you knew in high school and get a fresh start in a new city and focus on building your career. Cut back on drinking... no drugs... make money. Also keep in shape, work out and eat properly.
Keep approaching and making dates, but do not do this at the expense of your career. When you hit your late 20s, then join not for profit groups on issues you care about, they usually have great fundraising parties and events, this is where I meet most of he women in their 20s that I go out with... start going to local chamber of commerce networking events, this is where I meet most of the quality chicks I date in their 30s and 40s.
The worst thing a man can do after he graduates from college is move back in with his parents. I would move far away from friends you knew in high school and get a fresh start in a new city and focus on building your career. Cut back on drinking... no drugs... make money. Also keep in shape, work out and eat properly.
Cant you IP ban this guy? I mean how many times are we gonna see the same damn thread by this guy.