irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
Like this forum but the female version
I kinda want to see what problems females have with us
I kinda want to see what problems females have with us
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is there one of these for women/girls?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Drdeee
Banned
Best you'd find are relationship problems that they approach from emotional stand point. Never seen a forum about the rules, I guess it's just a book that they read.
Okay, so where's this french forum?TheMale said:
In all this time I've been visiting this site (which is much longer than my profile suggests), I've never seen the finding of one equivalent seduction forum for chicks. Chicks are bombarded by direct and indirect offers of sex, every day. Chick forums characteristically are comprised of chicks emoting with each other, talking about love and relationships rather than strategies how to seduce men; and any chicks who are having a hard time meeting guys would simply be told "just be yourself" and "everything happens for a reason." I find it suspicious that the first seduction forum for chicks happens to be in a foreign language.
Desdinova
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Click on the first link in the google search. (Can't post a direct link due to the filter)
http://www.google.ca/search?client=...nternational&sourceid=opera&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
http://www.google.ca/search?client=...nternational&sourceid=opera&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ah, yes, the Heartless Bïtches. That's going old skool.
Still not a seduction site, though. In the section for chicks, "The Manipulation Files," which is described as "Articles on how to spot the guys that Fück with your Mind and your Heart," is just relationship advice to avoid the wrong guys.
Still not a seduction site, though. In the section for chicks, "The Manipulation Files," which is described as "Articles on how to spot the guys that Fück with your Mind and your Heart," is just relationship advice to avoid the wrong guys.
so in the french forum there's a section who's talking about seduction
how to seduce this guy
and i think i even saw some book about seduction for chick on the net (in english also) but don't remember though
there's even some site that post article often
i can give you the link but i'm i don't know how much you can understand french
here's some title of topic/article in the forums :
"how to seduce a married guy/someone who's already in a relationship"
"we fcked and then no contact what should i do ?"
"what the signs of an interesting male"
"is he in lack of confidence ?"
"why should you seduce a guy while in a relationship ?"
etc....
and from what i saw there's no be yourself it's about how you should act to attract guys
what you gotta do to seduce a guy
yeah i know it's sounds like chick don't need that but actually there's a lot of girl who's looking for that
and they even use the PUA dictionary
how to seduce this guy
and i think i even saw some book about seduction for chick on the net (in english also) but don't remember though
there's even some site that post article often
i can give you the link but i'm i don't know how much you can understand french
here's some title of topic/article in the forums :
"how to seduce a married guy/someone who's already in a relationship"
"we fcked and then no contact what should i do ?"
"what the signs of an interesting male"
"is he in lack of confidence ?"
"why should you seduce a guy while in a relationship ?"
etc....
and from what i saw there's no be yourself it's about how you should act to attract guys
what you gotta do to seduce a guy
yeah i know it's sounds like chick don't need that but actually there's a lot of girl who's looking for that
and they even use the PUA dictionary
http://www.seductionbykamal.com/category/special-femme/
here's the blog with article
here's the women section on the forum
http://seductionbykamal.com/forum-drague/index.php/board,16.0.html
let me know your opinion !
here's the blog with article
here's the women section on the forum
http://seductionbykamal.com/forum-drague/index.php/board,16.0.html
let me know your opinion !
I checked out the seduction forum and noticed PUA lingo like kino, neg-hits, and DHV. I also noticed all the moderators are guys with names like "Alpha-Man" and "Theseus". So, what you basically have are PUA guys who are marketing PUA material towards girls.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
non there's a chick moderator (she)
the rest like "alpha male" and "lycan" are not so active lately
and it's thesee not "theseus"
now its "lord of donut", "curtis", "anthony c."
and about the marketing so yes the blog is commercial
but the forum is not they don't talk about selling some thing people are there to exchange their knowledge
but yes it's not natural
and i confess this is the only forum i saw (and i had the chance to discover a lot of them) that are natural and not PUA material
the rest like "alpha male" and "lycan" are not so active lately
and it's thesee not "theseus"
now its "lord of donut", "curtis", "anthony c."
and about the marketing so yes the blog is commercial
but the forum is not they don't talk about selling some thing people are there to exchange their knowledge
but yes it's not natural
and i confess this is the only forum i saw (and i had the chance to discover a lot of them) that are natural and not PUA material
Regardless of how material is crafted, it's still PUA guys and that is the point. The fact it's PUA guys speaks to the fact women don't have a real seduction problem.
There is some PUA in San Francisco, whose name I forget, who built a name for himself by teaching game to girls. But his clientele, the girls he coached, were all cougars. They were probably around 32 years old. These are girls who probably have banged 10-60 guys in their life (all truth be told) and only now after 16 years of banging sex they suddenly come around with "Hey, um, I can't get guys. It's like nobody wants me. How can I seduce men?" These are not your college-aged cute, bubbly, brunette waitresses you want to bang. These are the cougars and single mommies whose sexual market value is dropping off a cliff and heading towards the wall. These cougars often turn towards "seducing" young college dudes but only to reassure themselves they "still have it" to draw the attention of men. So, it's not a seduction problem, it's desire. We don't desire them.
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