irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
Like this forum but the female version
I kinda want to see what problems females have with us
I kinda want to see what problems females have with us
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is there one of these for women/girls?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Drdeee
Banned
Best you'd find are relationship problems that they approach from emotional stand point. Never seen a forum about the rules, I guess it's just a book that they read.
Okay, so where's this french forum?TheMale said:
In all this time I've been visiting this site (which is much longer than my profile suggests), I've never seen the finding of one equivalent seduction forum for chicks. Chicks are bombarded by direct and indirect offers of sex, every day. Chick forums characteristically are comprised of chicks emoting with each other, talking about love and relationships rather than strategies how to seduce men; and any chicks who are having a hard time meeting guys would simply be told "just be yourself" and "everything happens for a reason." I find it suspicious that the first seduction forum for chicks happens to be in a foreign language.
Desdinova
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Click on the first link in the google search. (Can't post a direct link due to the filter)
http://www.google.ca/search?client=...nternational&sourceid=opera&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
http://www.google.ca/search?client=...nternational&sourceid=opera&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ah, yes, the Heartless Bïtches. That's going old skool.
Still not a seduction site, though. In the section for chicks, "The Manipulation Files," which is described as "Articles on how to spot the guys that Fück with your Mind and your Heart," is just relationship advice to avoid the wrong guys.
Still not a seduction site, though. In the section for chicks, "The Manipulation Files," which is described as "Articles on how to spot the guys that Fück with your Mind and your Heart," is just relationship advice to avoid the wrong guys.
so in the french forum there's a section who's talking about seduction
how to seduce this guy
and i think i even saw some book about seduction for chick on the net (in english also) but don't remember though
there's even some site that post article often
i can give you the link but i'm i don't know how much you can understand french
here's some title of topic/article in the forums :
"how to seduce a married guy/someone who's already in a relationship"
"we fcked and then no contact what should i do ?"
"what the signs of an interesting male"
"is he in lack of confidence ?"
"why should you seduce a guy while in a relationship ?"
etc....
and from what i saw there's no be yourself it's about how you should act to attract guys
what you gotta do to seduce a guy
yeah i know it's sounds like chick don't need that but actually there's a lot of girl who's looking for that
and they even use the PUA dictionary
how to seduce this guy
and i think i even saw some book about seduction for chick on the net (in english also) but don't remember though
there's even some site that post article often
i can give you the link but i'm i don't know how much you can understand french
here's some title of topic/article in the forums :
"how to seduce a married guy/someone who's already in a relationship"
"we fcked and then no contact what should i do ?"
"what the signs of an interesting male"
"is he in lack of confidence ?"
"why should you seduce a guy while in a relationship ?"
etc....
and from what i saw there's no be yourself it's about how you should act to attract guys
what you gotta do to seduce a guy
yeah i know it's sounds like chick don't need that but actually there's a lot of girl who's looking for that
and they even use the PUA dictionary
http://www.seductionbykamal.com/category/special-femme/
here's the blog with article
here's the women section on the forum
http://seductionbykamal.com/forum-drague/index.php/board,16.0.html
let me know your opinion !
here's the blog with article
here's the women section on the forum
http://seductionbykamal.com/forum-drague/index.php/board,16.0.html
let me know your opinion !
I checked out the seduction forum and noticed PUA lingo like kino, neg-hits, and DHV. I also noticed all the moderators are guys with names like "Alpha-Man" and "Theseus". So, what you basically have are PUA guys who are marketing PUA material towards girls.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
non there's a chick moderator (she)
the rest like "alpha male" and "lycan" are not so active lately
and it's thesee not "theseus"
now its "lord of donut", "curtis", "anthony c."
and about the marketing so yes the blog is commercial
but the forum is not they don't talk about selling some thing people are there to exchange their knowledge
but yes it's not natural
and i confess this is the only forum i saw (and i had the chance to discover a lot of them) that are natural and not PUA material
the rest like "alpha male" and "lycan" are not so active lately
and it's thesee not "theseus"
now its "lord of donut", "curtis", "anthony c."
and about the marketing so yes the blog is commercial
but the forum is not they don't talk about selling some thing people are there to exchange their knowledge
but yes it's not natural
and i confess this is the only forum i saw (and i had the chance to discover a lot of them) that are natural and not PUA material
Regardless of how material is crafted, it's still PUA guys and that is the point. The fact it's PUA guys speaks to the fact women don't have a real seduction problem.
There is some PUA in San Francisco, whose name I forget, who built a name for himself by teaching game to girls. But his clientele, the girls he coached, were all cougars. They were probably around 32 years old. These are girls who probably have banged 10-60 guys in their life (all truth be told) and only now after 16 years of banging sex they suddenly come around with "Hey, um, I can't get guys. It's like nobody wants me. How can I seduce men?" These are not your college-aged cute, bubbly, brunette waitresses you want to bang. These are the cougars and single mommies whose sexual market value is dropping off a cliff and heading towards the wall. These cougars often turn towards "seducing" young college dudes but only to reassure themselves they "still have it" to draw the attention of men. So, it's not a seduction problem, it's desire. We don't desire them.
Martin Shabazz Jr.
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