then what about the attention seeking girls, you know the types.. really good looking, used to getting what they want used to getting attention all the time.. not quite full on attention wh0re but how many hot HB8-9s have u met who don't like attention all the time?
these are the ones who love guys constantly messaging them on facebook trying to hook up with them.. what im saying is she shouldn't even be courting this attention.. say you've been out with her for a couple months then.. she should still change her message.. if you ask her why she hasn't changed her status and she gives u any friction i still don't believe the excuses.
just cos she'll get a bunch of questions about it.. boo hoo.. so what.. deal with it. by then all of her friends should have already met you and know you're an item so it's only natural you'd have it changed.
Maybe she doesn't want everyone to know. Why do you feel the whole world should know about your relationship? It's no one's business but yours and hers. You would like you sister's love life plastered on facebook?
what i'm saying is that if she puts up any friction and does not give you a legitimate excuse which i can't think of many then you should drop her cos she's one of those types who likes guys to keep messaging her trying to hook up with her.
As long as she doesn't act on it, there is nothing wrong with that. I know you would love to be the guy who constantly gets messaged by girls, who constantly has girls giving you there phone number. It's good for the ego and self-esteem. Maybe she's curious to see if she still has it. Relationships aren't so cut and dry. All she has to say is "Thanks for the message, but sorry I have a boyfriend". It appears as though you are more insecure than any hot girl. If seems like is anyone is dating you, they must let everyone else know and no one else is allowed to talk them.
isn't this a legitimate request? ok if her interest level is so high in you that she begs you to change your status still doesn't prevent her from not changing hers.. she may try to get you to change it but won't change hers..
Therein lies your problem. You agreed to change yours on her request so now she knows she has emotional control over you. (Look how upset he gets when I won't change my facebook status...wow, do I have control over drift king. Lets try to control him some more...I'm going to talk to another guy in front of him to see what he does...)
Her: Drift king, we are in a committed relationship and have seen each other without our clothes on, can you change your facebook status?
You: Unfortunately I have a difficult time getting on facebook. Would you like to go dancing with me tonight?
