i picked up this hot woman in an organic food supermarket over the weekend with an observational opener, and took it from there. literally she was in my top 3 of hot chicks i've picked up.. literally victoria secret model looks wise.. amazing. i got to the hook point where i was like 'so you married?' and she was like 'nooo! (then shows me her fingers) i go 'good that means we can go for a drink some time' she laughs and said 'sure!' i take my phone out to take her digits then somehow the convo went off on a tangent..
i think she blindsighted me and asked me if i knew anything good for intestinal stuff like probiotics etc.. at this point i should have either said no, or took her by the hand over to the probiotic section instead of just telling her to follow me to that section, then i ended up spending next 4-5 mins telling her about me taking this product and how great it was blah blah..
anyway she told 'i have to go now but what's your facebook? you have so much knowledge you should share it with the world' (hands me her phone) i remember i am hidden under search on facebook so i couldnt give it even if i wanted to.. and i was like 'uhh.. let's exchange numbers instead' then i carried on making the joke about us moving to switzerland together (she said something about moving there for better quality of life) anyway the mistake i made was being too clingy not letting her go, she was laughing but she had to go out clubbing later and i was holding her up.. i think twice she had to say 'sorry i really need to go now'.. i also DLV'd a bit i think when i said i wanted to quiet life and didn't want to party anymore and she's like 'i party every other weekend..' (she's 29) then i proceeded to tell her i go bars, and i wanted the quiet life.. she says 'your life would be perfect in switzerland then
' and i said 'yeah we could enjoy it together ' and she laughed. but then I DLV'd by saying i was goign to the cinema that night.. basically i think she thinks i'm boring and stay at home etc. i got the digits and kissed her on both cheeks bye.
when i got the digits i did say: 'dont worry, i'll contact you..' as in make it seem like she may worry i wouldn't. my concern is it may have went from being a perfect pick up to a 'this guy has lots of information i'll use him for..'
anyway i thought cos of my clinginess not letting her go may have scuppered the potential meet up.
i texted her 2 days later my number' hey HB, we met in the organic food market over the weekend, this is my number. BW'
(no response)
not necessarily a bad thing but still, high IL girls would respond.
so i proceed to text her today to meet up, 'let's get together for a drink in the next couple days and continue our stimulating convo about switzerland amongst other things stimulating.. im busy tonight, but how's tomorrow or Thurs at 9?
no response yet.
ok she's one of those socialite high in demand women, as in has loads of guys after her.. she looks like a victorias secret model, i shouldn't be surprised.. but number rule is my value is always higher than hers and im the prize not her (that's how i behaved with her being c0cky and funny)
i realise now i should have called instead of texting my number (but i had no idea that she wouldn't respond so i wouldn't know that) as she may have picked up if she didn't recognise the number and i could have gamed her on the phone to spike the interest back up (gives me more leeway).. as now the IL is fading.
yes i know, low IL girl (my slight clinginess not letting her leave may have scuppered it) and maybe other guys on the horizon she likes better.
is there much i can do now?
i was thinking of trying the call maybe next mon, to try and get things back up.. or sending her a text of my facebook and see what she does with it..
i dont wanna seem desperate, or too keen, so i need to pace myself, esp since i acted a bit clingy i need to do the opposite of that. but if she's failing to respond or pick up my calls then i guess it's over.
I'm not trying to be like i have oneitis.. it's just she is insanely hot and i rarely encounter victoria secret esque girls on my sarging.. i got a few other numbers this weekend but no dice nor am i that interested as they're no way nearly as hot as this one.. i'll proceed to carry on sarging but it's annoying losing these super hot ones as you dont encounter them that often in life.
i think she blindsighted me and asked me if i knew anything good for intestinal stuff like probiotics etc.. at this point i should have either said no, or took her by the hand over to the probiotic section instead of just telling her to follow me to that section, then i ended up spending next 4-5 mins telling her about me taking this product and how great it was blah blah..
anyway she told 'i have to go now but what's your facebook? you have so much knowledge you should share it with the world' (hands me her phone) i remember i am hidden under search on facebook so i couldnt give it even if i wanted to.. and i was like 'uhh.. let's exchange numbers instead' then i carried on making the joke about us moving to switzerland together (she said something about moving there for better quality of life) anyway the mistake i made was being too clingy not letting her go, she was laughing but she had to go out clubbing later and i was holding her up.. i think twice she had to say 'sorry i really need to go now'.. i also DLV'd a bit i think when i said i wanted to quiet life and didn't want to party anymore and she's like 'i party every other weekend..' (she's 29) then i proceeded to tell her i go bars, and i wanted the quiet life.. she says 'your life would be perfect in switzerland then
' and i said 'yeah we could enjoy it together ' and she laughed. but then I DLV'd by saying i was goign to the cinema that night.. basically i think she thinks i'm boring and stay at home etc. i got the digits and kissed her on both cheeks bye.when i got the digits i did say: 'dont worry, i'll contact you..' as in make it seem like she may worry i wouldn't. my concern is it may have went from being a perfect pick up to a 'this guy has lots of information i'll use him for..'
anyway i thought cos of my clinginess not letting her go may have scuppered the potential meet up.
i texted her 2 days later my number' hey HB, we met in the organic food market over the weekend, this is my number. BW'
(no response)
not necessarily a bad thing but still, high IL girls would respond.
so i proceed to text her today to meet up, 'let's get together for a drink in the next couple days and continue our stimulating convo about switzerland amongst other things stimulating.. im busy tonight, but how's tomorrow or Thurs at 9?
no response yet.
ok she's one of those socialite high in demand women, as in has loads of guys after her.. she looks like a victorias secret model, i shouldn't be surprised.. but number rule is my value is always higher than hers and im the prize not her (that's how i behaved with her being c0cky and funny)
i realise now i should have called instead of texting my number (but i had no idea that she wouldn't respond so i wouldn't know that) as she may have picked up if she didn't recognise the number and i could have gamed her on the phone to spike the interest back up (gives me more leeway).. as now the IL is fading.
yes i know, low IL girl (my slight clinginess not letting her leave may have scuppered it) and maybe other guys on the horizon she likes better.
is there much i can do now?
i was thinking of trying the call maybe next mon, to try and get things back up.. or sending her a text of my facebook and see what she does with it..
i dont wanna seem desperate, or too keen, so i need to pace myself, esp since i acted a bit clingy i need to do the opposite of that. but if she's failing to respond or pick up my calls then i guess it's over.
I'm not trying to be like i have oneitis.. it's just she is insanely hot and i rarely encounter victoria secret esque girls on my sarging.. i got a few other numbers this weekend but no dice nor am i that interested as they're no way nearly as hot as this one.. i'll proceed to carry on sarging but it's annoying losing these super hot ones as you dont encounter them that often in life.