is there anything wrong with not wanting a gf?

[kontrol freak]

what does it mean if you consciously decide that you don't really care if you ever have a girlfriend and you would be content to batt off to porn for the rest of your life?

it's not that i *can't* get a girlfriend, it's just that i simply don't *want* one, regardless of how hot they are.

as i mentioned in another thread, i've been asked out by girls who had just seen me around school and i've never spoken to before (ie i somehow get hit on by just existing), three times this year, but i was like 'wtf, ur insane, piss off (not really)' everytime.

is there anything wrong with having no desire to connect to *anyone* even though they somehow come to *you*?? has anyone else felt this way and what is causing it? (i know this is the complete opposite of what this forum is about but i just want to hear what ppl have to say)

 

[jmeredi]

This is the problem I have had lately, I have gone on a few dates but I don't want to commit to anyone right now. This drives a few of them crazy, it's been said a million times but it's funny that when I'm looking for one, I can't find one. When i don't want one, they are all over me. Sometimes I hate women lol.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Maybe cut down on the porn? I used to feel the same way...then I realized how much fun a girl on the side could be.

Working-out changed my perspective on everything.

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by kontrol freak
what does it mean if you consciously decide that you don't really care if you ever have a girlfriend and you would be content to batt off to porn for the rest of your life?

it's not that i *can't* get a girlfriend, it's just that i simply don't *want* one, regardless of how hot they are.

as i mentioned in another thread, i've been asked out by girls who had just seen me around school and i've never spoken to before (ie i somehow get hit on by just existing), three times this year, but i was like 'wtf, ur insane, piss off (not really)' everytime.

is there anything wrong with having no desire to connect to *anyone* even though they somehow come to *you*?? has anyone else felt this way and what is causing it? (i know this is the complete opposite of what this forum is about but i just want to hear what ppl have to say)

so you're the untouchable guy eh?



i had girls coming onto me in high school but i simply couldn't be bothered with them.

it might just be a passing phase in your life though. when i was 17, i think i was more interested in other things than girls. (gaming, school workload)

as guitaronfire said he realized how much fun a girl on the side could be, you might too.

but you shouldn't worry too much about it.

cheers!