"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is there anything wrong for a guy to take self taken pictures?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JohnChops

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yo you ugly as fuuuuqqqqq! haha just kidding man! Its fine its just a pic, I do it all the time ...... you get addicted to pics once you start working out o_0
 

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Both men and women take pictures of themselves all the time, look at facebook. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but people will probably subconsciously think you have more "value" if someone else takes it, or there's other people in the picture with you.

-Scars
 

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I think it is strange. This is ok for girls to do, but especially shirtless pics in front of mirrors it makes guys look like douchelords. I don't even like to post photos of myself that others have taken. You always increase your value by having someone else take/post the photographs.
 

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nop, just mean you are alone man , don't show them to women , I did it and she guessed instantly that I was alone there
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nothing wrong with it....

You're a handsome guy. If the rest of your game is intact, the skys the limit.
 

backseatjuan

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Looking at the pic you took we can see that light is from top right and there is shadow on your face. Thus it is a crappy picture. Go ahead take photos of yourself, if you can, just as long as photo is good. Photo is good, if it hasn't been altered, when you have good self-image. Looking at the photo you took and your question it is obvious there is a problem. It's called inner sparkle, happy people with good self-image have it. That's the secret some people have that they look good in all photos. Combine good self image and good picture taking skills and you have an excellent photo.
 

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backseatjuan said:
Looking at the pic you took we can see that light is from top right and there is shadow on your face. Thus it is a crappy picture. Go ahead take photos of yourself, if you can, just as long as photo is good. Photo is good, if it hasn't been altered, when you have good self-image. Looking at the photo you took and your question it is obvious there is a problem. It's called inner sparkle, happy people with good self-image have it. That's the secret some people have that they look good in all photos. Combine good self image and good picture taking skills and you have an excellent photo.
so good pictures do not have shadow?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OP, you've made more than one of these threads and this need for attention and validation from a bunch of strangers on the web isn't in your best interest. You're perpetuating something that you should be working on controlling.

Part of me thinks you're trolling for you own amusement and another part wonders if you're really that insecure. Fess up... Which is it?
 

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please don't post that. nothing makes me cringe harder than when guys go looking for facebook likes. its bad enough when girls do it. also, why aren't you smiling? don't post your rape face unless you want girls to think you rape a lot.
 
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