"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is there anything u can do about your looks besides expensive clothes and working out

HardTimes

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cola said:
start taking pictures with better expression may help.. i use to always take pictures that were boring with a stoic look on my face .. i just recently started using different expressions.. i,e sticking my tounge out, giving the finger, over exaggerated smiles.. and it aint make me look better in pictures but it made me look like a fun guy and the girls picked up on it and my success on social networking sites went up.. now i have chicks sending
me friend requests, something i never had and its a good confidence boost.. also social proof your pictures.. have pics with you kissing girls, girls hugging you etc.. women want men other chicks find attractive.. good luck
I have tons a pics which chicks but none of them were from my camera so I don't have access to those pics. Often times it's with chicks from bars I never see again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HardTimes

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Captain said:
Make your workouts more intense. You don't just want to be above average, you want to be exceptional. It's not hard to find a man with a good body, but finding an exceptionally good body is.
Trust me I'm working on it man, it just takes time.
 

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Post a pic, or delete this thread. Seriously. People make threads like this all the time, but they're 100% doomed to fail, unless you post a pic. How are we supposed to know if you're unnattractive or if it's just the pic, and how are we supposed to help you improve your appearance without a pic? If you're worried about your pic being on the internet, then PM me one and I'll try to help you, since I think I'm pretty knowledgeable. I won't post it or anything, cause I understand the whole anonymity thing. So decide if you REALLY want help or not.
 

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Get a HB friend with an artistic flair. have her assist you in choosing some clothes that have you look a bit beefier (since you said you want to bulk up). for example, shirts with high collars and real short sleeves make your chest & arms look bigger. You dont have to spend tons of money, just have good taste-thats where the HB friend comes in.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dude forget about looks just dress nice and not to smell bad . I used to think looks can take you places but they dont do ****. I know that iam a hottie every where i go girls give me the deer in the highlights look and like ask me for my number. But when they spend a little time with me they are gone lol after that. You can be the hottest guy in the world but if you have no game your not get ****. Lol girls are starting to be different around me tho im starting to change at least i can get a few numbers from cold appraoching but i havent gone on a date with a girl or made out yet but im slowly getting their. Im just completely sure girls dont care about looks they say they do but thats cause they assume that all good looking guys are dj's once they find out your not your nexted.
 

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HardTimes said:
I can't think of much else what I can do. I'm 5'8, 145lb
Hit the weights, protein and carbs. Bulk up to about 160.

I had the same problem in my teens and early 20s. I'm also 5'8" and I was around 140ish. I was the typical short, skinny dweeb. I couldn't get interest from women to save my life. I started hitting the weights when I was 22 and by 24 I was 157. Women started noticing me now that my shoulders had broadened.
 
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