"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is there ANYTHING that can get me matches online?

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I am constantly told, even by people on here, that I'm not ugly. Yet, I get NOTHING on dating apps. Average of 0.1/100 swipes, and this is the same for Bumble, Tinder, and Badoo. Badoo is slightly better, but then they don't respond.

I am going to get "professional" pictures taken soon. Maybe I'll wait until after I have the Lamborghini. I am wearing nice clothes in my pictures. I cannot significantly alter the way I look with any products or procedures.

What the fvck is going on?

I don't think there's any amount of "working on it" that I can do. And like I said, I am usually called a 7/10 in person, so I have no fvcking clue.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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Not being ugly and being top 20% in looks are two different things.

Women online can fake their value up to 2 points in look while they expect men to be up to 2 point more than what they show (which is already 2 points more than what they are).

I'm not ugly either, I can get attention from women in real life but I find myself in your same condition online, few matches and plenty of no reply.
 
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Not being ugly and being top 20% in looks are two different things.

Women online can fake their value up to 2 points in look while they expect men to be up to 2 point more than what they show (which is already 2 points more than what they are).

I'm not ugly either, I can get attention from women in real life but I find myself in your same condition online, few matches and plenty of no reply.
So then maybe the Lamborghini bull$h1t is my only option. Or just stick to Seeking Arrangement.

It just pisses me off all the free pu$$y I could be getting if I was 1-2 points higher in looks.

7/10 is top 30%. So I need to move up 1 point at least. My best guesses...

Lift weights, get nice clothes, show off wealth.

I have a photographer says he can take pictures of me downtown or in some other similar area. Sounds kind of like b$ to me. First of all, I don't exactly respect the "profession" of photography, especially from a fvcking male. But I guess since I haven't tried it, I don't really know if it would work.
 

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Get “fun” photos where you’re genuinely smiling and out doing stuff. Just sitting on a Lambo will make you look tryhard.

Girls want to f*** you, not the car. Getting the right photos is the hardest bit (and yes my matches suck too).

My photos are crap though, because I’m not always posing for pics!
 
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That stuff came in the mail. Here it is on my head. It said put where hair is thinning. Only place they told me to fill when I went for appointments was the hairline.

I'm pretty sure my hair looks the same as before with this stuff on it.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get “fun” photos where you’re genuinely smiling and out doing stuff. Just sitting on a Lambo will make you look tryhard.

Girls want to f*** you, not the car. Getting the right photos is the hardest bit (and yes my matches suck too).

My photos are crap though, because I’m not always posing for pics!
Okay I'll stand next to it. And if a girl isn't impressed that I can buy a $150k car like it's nothing, then she can go fvck herself because she could never do any such thing. Girls aren't even capable of work other than stupid office jobs.
 

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Get a female perspective on your photos and profile.

I had a profile that I thought was decent - then showed it to a women friend of mine and she pointed out the tiniest things that girls look into and can a deal breaker for them ("your lips are looking weird in this photo")
 

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That stuff came in the mail. Here it is on my head. It said put where hair is thinning. Only place they told me to fill when I went for appointments was the hairline.

I'm pretty sure my hair looks the same as before with this stuff on it.
Your hairstyle is extremely weak and alters your face structure.

You can style it forward on the top and back if you like, but the front (and perhaps all your hair) should be pushed back and showcase a rectangle-shaped forehead.

Use the Toppik to create a strong hairline. Buy this spray to apply the Toppik right behind the hairline with precision. Pat the Toppik down a bit so it blends well with the hair. Use gel or forming cream (this is my personal favorite). Then use lots of hairspray to hold, and blend/meld it in.

Also I would recommend daily use of RU58841. This is the only DHT inhibitor that can be applied directly onto the scalp with no reported side effects. If you are serious about your hairloss prevention, research studies on Avodart, though less than a few-percent report erection side effects, it's not likely relevant to you as yours works bionically.
 
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