"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is there anything I can do to make my voice really deep?

shadowfox

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Dont know where I should have put this thread but it seems health related so here goes...

Apart from smoking 50 a day is there anything I can do to make my voice really deep?

I listen around and most people have such wimpy, emasculated and feminine voices these days ... a deep voice however conveys POWER and MASCULINITY( big muscles and attitude of course are important). I want my voice to be like Sylvester Stallone's at least. ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Voice exercises like singers do. It helps. You can also stop jerking the monkey. Get that testosterone up.
 

ThreeStorms

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Instead of going for a deep voice, I would go for a strong voice. Everyone has his "natural tone" depending on length of the vocal cords, lung capacity and other factors. Speaking in your own tone, while regarding factors like posture, breathing, speaking with an "inner smile" etc. (there are many books about the theme) will make your voice clearer, stronger, and more likeable.

Trying to speak in a different than your natural tone will damage your vocal organs in the long run.
 
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