is there any way to AMOG without insulting the other dude

[taiwanesedude227]

If there is a group of girls you want to engage and there is already a guy who is talking to them and making them laugh, how do you go about taking them away from him without dissing him? I usually can't get their attention unless I'm persistent... and I don't want to come across as desperate for their attention. How do I get these girls away from the other guy without actually having to just diss him out of nowhere?

 

[The Juan and only]

you don't necessary need to get the guy away from them. Just approach the whole group (and its probably a good idea to try and make friends with the guy straight away). Once the girls are talking to both you and him...that's when you demonstrate how much better you are..in a subtle way. For a start, DON'T act jealously and make sure to talk to the guy as much as the girls. Take command quickly and try to assert yourself as the primary speaker(all in a friendly way)....from there you can just bring in all your other DJ techniques and I'm sure the girls will want to leave with you, not him.

 

[MacDiddy]

quote:is there any way to AMOG without insulting the other dude


Thats the whole point of AMOGing. to insult and get away with it.

 

[Holland]

I always ignore anything that the guy says and behave totally uneffected by anything he does. He'll usually try to get more attention and approval which will give you more value instantly.
If he on the other hand isn't approval seeking, it's probably a cool guy to chill with and you can be friends with him. You might learn something usefull from him.

 

[NorPacWolf]

Taiwanese,

Mystery Method is designed specifically to address the mixed set issue which you describe above, i.e., a group with at least one male and one female. Neil Strauss's The Game outlines Mystery's group theory in considerable detail. Also, you can subscribe to Mystery's online apprenticeship program. The Mystery Method website will send you a series of emails which outline his method. You don't get to see this guru in the field unless you pay for a very expensive seminar though lol.

Good luck.

NorPacWolf

 

[Leah]

I say befriend the guy first and then the girls are more likely to open to you, then when you pick your target you can subtly put him down whilst making yourself look better, such as when you're about to kiss tell her you shouldn't be doing this cos the other guy is into her. She'll think you're genuine and sweet, thinking of this other guys feelings.

 

[bbestar]

Go up to the alpha of the group.. (guy) and pat him real hard on the back so he loses balance and stubles forward.. says in a loud authoritative voice.. WASSUP PLAYA!!

Step slightly in front of him and run game toward the whole group ignoring your target...

Credit to Tyler durden.. who is more alpha then mystery and neil struss.. haa

 

[taiwanesedude227]

Good advice.. I'll try it out. But what if he's hostile when I approach? Like what if when I appraoch the group he's like "go away" or something like that? I know this guy to be kind of a ****.

 

[taiwanesedude227]

bump

 

[The Juan and only]

If you approach the group in a friendly but confident way, it seems unlikely he would openly oppose you.

However, If a guy does come at you with a bad attitude then simply try to diffuse the situation with humor or explain to him that you're just saying hello....the fact is..if a guy starts to act in a jealous way (or becomes agressive for NO REASON), then the girls he's with will lose some respect for him - he's only damaging himself.

 

[bbestar]

Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Good advice.. I'll try it out. But what if he's hostile when I approach? Like what if when I appraoch the group he's like "go away" or something like that? I know this guy to be kind of a ****.

You need to be in state though, when approaching you need to be in a great and upbeat mood.

If says something negative, completely ignore it and run your game or tell them something interesting