Is there any source about how to "talk" to females?

[moneyisking]

I am talking about the "talking" part. My life has gotten better little by little since the last post, and I am brightening up and becoming optimistic; I have met couple people at the gym (both me approaching sometimes and others approaching me) and other places, and talked to couple girls non-seduction related. Of course, it's not 100%, but I am getting better psychologically.

I have thought "hm, now my attitude problem is getting better, but what about the 'talking' part?" Because I still don't know how to "talk" to women. There are loads of info about mindset, techniques like CF, kino, and specific stuff like how to pass a sh!t test, etc, but haven't really seen an advice source about how to "talk" to women, I mean really knowing how to talk and just blabbering sh!t is different matter right? some info will be appreciated.

 

[backseatjuan]

Just show them the tongue like Manolo Ribera from Scarface.





Hehe.. In this country money talks to women, get the money and you will get the girl. Check out Mode One by Allan Roger Currie.

 

[flashpoint]

for starters:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/converse.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/body.htm

 

[Who Dares Win]

Actually talking to women requires much less effort than talking to men.

While talking to men you have to say something which make sense being communication between us and effective one based on facts and data.

I find myself much more at ease in talking to women from some time mostly because I can litteraly say whatever comes to my mind (wheter it make sense or not), and most of all whatever you say they connect it to something theirs and come out with new topics really fast from which you can follow the same way.

While bvllsh1tting with men usually make you look unserious and uncompetant, doing the same with women if done with self confidence and a unapologetic attitude will actually make you look more competant (since they base their opinion on social skills more than logical ones).

To make it short my suggestion to you is simply to let the frame of the conversation open and flexibile but still under your control, never take them or yourself too seriously and be totally unapologetic.
A bvllsh1t said with confidence is to women what a concept proved with facts is to a man.

What said above apply of course to body language as well.

 

[JohnChops]

just let it flow......

starting the conversation is the hardest part (like a cellular activity without an enzyme) but once you get that enzyme (i.e. an opening topic on whats going on around you), youll lessen the hump and get over with ease.

Just listen to her, its quite simple actually. I have no idea why people here over complicate just talking to a girl. Listen and open up whatever topic you feel like going off of that she addressed.

Yes its that simple

 

[JohnChops]

This does not always work though:

If she is very boring (50%)
If she is very unmotivated: un attracted to you, mega introvert, entitled, etc..

You should follow the above advice and when it doesn't work, recognize that it's not your fault.

if shes boring move on, if she has no interest move on . My advice usually works for me, but those two articles that flashpoint posted are actually real good. First things I read when I came here

 

[JohnChops]

Yes, by above advice to follow I meant your advice(and also whodareswin).

Oops sorry I misread it . My fault .