Started dating this girl last week and we're going out again this weekend and I'm sure she will be expecting me to hit it this weekend. Problem is I haven't gotten any for a little over 4 months and I'm afraid that when we are going at it this weekend I will bust a lot earlier than I usually do. It will probably take me a few weeks of regular sex to rebuild my stam to last longer but until then is there any pill or drink I can buy to help with this area?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is there any pill/suplement that temporarily makes you last longer?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KontrollerX
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Not that I know of but you could look into the dangerous practice of tantra which could solve the problem or do what some idiots do and lightly pinch the head of your c0ck just before you are about to blow stopping or preventing semen release.
Both of these practices I believe have been called dangerous by Dr. Drew from the old Loveline show but if you are the risk taking sort one of them may be just what you are looking for. :yes:
Both of these practices I believe have been called dangerous by Dr. Drew from the old Loveline show but if you are the risk taking sort one of them may be just what you are looking for. :yes:
Scars
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I've always been a pre-mature ejaculator. It kinda sucks, but at the same time it doesn't. I've been with a pretty good amount of girls, and I've blown my load everytime (protection of course) while my buddies may only get off every once in awhile. What I learned to do is keep my wood after ejaculating. I could keep a boner for hours and I will have say, 4 or 5 orgasms between that period of time. I call them "rounds". So I may get off quick.. but I also I get off a lot, which makes it does seem like I last a long time. The only thing that's weird is when a girl asks why I keep changing my condoms so much. I always have 3 on me, bare minimum.
Prodigy746
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ROFL that made me laugh. Good advice though...Scars said:
ahha at"i call them rounds"
Igetit!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheBucketOfTruth
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You'd be right about that being a bad idea. You're still cumming and having an orgasm, so it won't help you there. At the least it will cause retrograde ejaculation (pushed back up into your bladder), but you can probably cause some damage down there doing that kind of thing.KontrollerX said:
As for pills, for some reason DayQuil makes me last longer. Or maybe just me being sick makes me last longer. Who knows? Try it out.
So back to the original topic, does anybody have any other suggestions? I have a lot of adult shops in my city so finding a product won't be hard at all but I need to know which ones work and which ones are scams (which I assume 90% of them are).
Am I just going to have to visit an adult shop and pick one and hope I get lucky?
Am I just going to have to visit an adult shop and pick one and hope I get lucky?
TheBucketOfTruth
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If there were some wonder pill for this, do you really think it would be so obscure and difficult to find out about?HardTimes said:
I know you probably have some anxiety and nervousness about it, but I'd say just jerk it once the day you think you're going to have sex and you'll do better. The only other suggestions I can make are things that personally help me, though I have some sort of condition that may not apply to you. Avoid caffeine, spicy foods, and alcohol and drink a lot of water to keep your prostate healthy and free of irritation (if you're that concerned).
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Sometimes I ejaculate early. But, there is one tip that has helped me stop that.
Dont think about sex while your fvcking your girl. If you think about how good the pvssy is and how hot of a body she has and ect. You will bust quicker. Just focus on what your doing and dont have all these nasty thoughts running through your head. Its worked for me. Seriously, just think about work or what you wanna do tomorrow while fvcking her. You will still enjoy it...
If anyone test this out reply if it worked for you. Cause, it has for me.
Dont think about sex while your fvcking your girl. If you think about how good the pvssy is and how hot of a body she has and ect. You will bust quicker. Just focus on what your doing and dont have all these nasty thoughts running through your head. Its worked for me. Seriously, just think about work or what you wanna do tomorrow while fvcking her. You will still enjoy it...
If anyone test this out reply if it worked for you. Cause, it has for me.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you guys are lucky....its almost impossible for me to get off i dont know why...its an ego killer for a lot of girls. a friend of mine gave me a tip to pick up the girl and bone her in front of a mirror so im gonna try that. sorry i couldnt help out
TheBucketOfTruth
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What have you tried to rectify that situation?pua1989 said:
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Fleshlight?