RichardTheFrog
Banned
Apparently POF sucks. Is there anything that doesn't suck?
Or do I have to leave my house?
And don't they suck too?
Or do I have to leave my house?
And don't they suck too?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is there any online dating that isn't trash?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea but that's prostitution.
Plus, I haven't met that many. I usually get them to agree to meet, then don't feel like wasting the money.
MatureDJ
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I think that for man of true means and who is decently attractive, there are private matchmakers who know not to throw the garbage that is POF. These women are at a high level, and they know that most every man on OLD is not good enough.