"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is there any difference between a PUA and an AlphaMale

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I have always wondered if there is any difference between a guy who is a PUA and one who is an AlphaMale, is it exactly the same thing.
The reason I am asking this is because I have met lots of guys over the years who were excellent when it came to seducing the hottest babes, though when it came to a fist fight they were as weak as a Kitten, is this type of guy an AlphaMale, or does an AlphaMale have to be a good fighter, it may seem to be a strange question but can anyone tell me what an AlphaMale actually is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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An alpha male is the guy who leads his group. He is a leader, not a follower. A PUA aims to pick up girls. An alpha male doesnt need to be a PUA and a PUA doesnt need to be an alpha.
 
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No!

A pua=pick up artist. A pua is basically someone who is good at meeting women and then ****ing them.

And Alphamale is a guy who is basically tough, strong, aggressive, and dominant. Someone you dont want to mess with unless you want to get hurt. Basically a guy who has the equivelant characteristics possessed by alpha males in the animal world.

And according to the alpha male definition, guys who get their ass beat or are weak are not alphamales. Sosuave and others have created this theory that if you are an alpha male, youll get lots of pvssy. Not neccessarily true.

Women do like bad boys, hawever, there are just as many non-badyboy/non-alpha guys who get lots of good looking women. ITs a myth that women only like "alpha-males", women also like guys who would NOT be considered "alpha-males", showing the correlation isnt as strong as some would like you to beleive.

This myth probably explains your confusion.
 
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I agree with you that alphas arent necessarily PUAs, but Im not too sure about your definition. I would say that in the human world an Alpha doesnt necessarily have to be ripped. Its as much a mental thing as anything. The alphas are the leader of the group, someone that his "followers" or friends look up to from a social perspective, more than a physical one.
 
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