Is there any benefit to exclusivity for men?

[narcissist]

I'm very curious about your opinions on this one fellow DJ's

Do you think it is ever logical or beneficial to become exclusive with a girl?

If so what would the benefits be as opposed to fvcking multiple girls at once?

Do you think it would be better to have a "main squeeze" and other girls on the side, where you get to fvck them and she knows that you do and she doesnt fvck other guys?

Or do girls like that not exist?

Just curious because I personally would like to have the best of both worlds

for one: I like some aspects of relationships but there are many aspects that turn me off completely to exclusivity

for two: I like fvcking different women but i definitely wouldnt want my main b!tch fvckin other guys. (pretty selfish i know)

So I guess my main question is... is it possible for one to have the best of both worlds? like have a girl and cheat without it being considered cheating and she stays loyal? or is this too ambitious?

 

[handle]

I've had an arrangement in the past where I have a girlfriend but I can sleep around a bit on the side as long as it doesn't take away from time we spend together (so, usually when she's out of town or busy or whatever). Honestly, I don't think it's worth my time and I won't do it again. It's just too much to juggle, I have a career and hobbies and stuff to deal with, I can't be dating one girl seriously while fvcking others.

Personally I don't get much out of ONS situations (the sex usually sucks, let's be honest… nothing is going to beat a consistent partner), so I have to hunt around for girls who are OK with me having a girlfriend and who won't get too attached. It is not easy to find girls like that. Takes time and effort.

In my experience, if you have a good girlfriend that you genuinely enjoy being around then you should just stick with the one. Otherwise, play the field. That in-between zone is just needlessly stressful, especially if you have a busy life already.

 

[In2theGame]

Been there and definitely agree with what handle said.

 

[papawapa]

The best part of exclusivity is getting laid everyday with little effort.

 

[Trump]

There is NONE. The law and courts are on the woman's side. You can't compete with the laws, judges, prisons, alimony and spousal and child support payments when it comes to women.

Another problem with exclusivity is as soon as the girl knows you have any emotion invested in her or the relationship, she will freaking CRUSH YOU.

I personally tell girls: I absolutely love you and adore you and miss you, but feel free to leave me ANYTIME. :cheer:

 

[Greasy Pig]

For me, being in an LTR is about security.
Not so much in an emotional sense as in a "what the fvck are these red sores on my dyck!" sense.
I've tooled a lot of women and had the clap twice. A good mate caught herpes off a ONS and I just shudder to imagine myself out there banging slores again and catching an incurable dose.
Plus, I can rawdog on my GF but not some club bunny.